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bentank90

25 Terre Haute, IN Man

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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 18–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 6:29pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body type
Fit
Diet
Smokes
Sometimes
Drinks
Often
Drugs
Religion
Sign
Education
Working on university
Job
Income
Status
Single
Type
Offspring
Pets
Has dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
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I just moved back from New Hampshire where I was living in the mountains enjoying some pretty cool stuff for a while. The only thing that did kind of stink out there was the isolation. But I'm back and ready to interact with some people!

I'm an artist and musician. A little bit of an oddball, but the one most people seem to really enjoy. I just have a tendency to try and see things from every light possible a little more so than others which has it's pros and cons. Being open to trying to understand every view can be awesome in terms of learning, understanding people from different backgrounds, and expanding one's mind to new ideas. That said, it can also result in difficulties with making certain kinds of decisions, keeping to the point, etc... Still, I'm grateful I'm the way I am. :)

I am learning the guitar, was once a pretty damn good saxophonist (until my jaw got busted, I lost all my scholarships, then my saxes were stolen before I healed enough to start getting my chops back) and I dabble a TINY bit on the piano. I've also worked on a lot of music theory and music education. Currently though, I'm studying studio art at Indiana State University. I have recently acquired some connections though that might be able to get me transferred over to Heron.

I'm a good friend, try to be as respectful as possible, and honor others' ideas/ways. That said, I'm not by any means a prude or goody goody. I do love to get down and have my fair share of fun. So let's get to know each other! :)
What I’m doing with my life
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In the past few years a series of strange, very personally specific events have taken place which have radically and repeatedly turned everything around. I used to think these events to some extent were terrible misfortunes, and I'm not sure they weren't, but now I'm beginning to wonder if they are wonderful happenings I just have to learn the true value for. I've noticed a shift in orientation with each event while part of me still remains where I once stood allowing to see things in so many different ways.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Music, art, and much more
The first things people usually notice about me
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I can be quite energetic or very subdued and lost in thought. If I don't shave for long enough, they notice my awesome, red beard. Depending on the light and colors I'm wearing as well, they notice the color of my eyes which often changes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Fahrenheit 451, 1984, Brave New World, Blink, The Tipping Point, Weapons of Mass Instruction, the Scary Stories to Tell in the Dark series, The Science of Music.

I love a ton of movies. I hate that a lot of people with lesser personalities list it as a "go-to" movie now, but I must say the Boondock Sts. is an awesome film. I love the Exorcist. Especially the extended version. People find it boring now it seems, but I truly am intrigued by the tiniest little things they place throughout the movie expressing the entry of the possessive entity into the home and then into Reagan that others seem not to notice or care about. Antichrist is another great one. To add, I do love lighter films like Step Brothers.

TV: Breaking Bad, Check it Out with Doctor Steve Brule, South Park, Bob's Burgers, The Office, Parks and Recreation, etc...

I love a shit ton of music: SRV, Hendrix, Floyd, Zeppelin, The White Stripes, The Raconteurs, The Dead Weather, Jack White's solo stuff, The Kills, Chilli Peppers, Van Halen, Pretty Lights, good dubstep, Block Head, The Who, Rage Against the Machine, Guns 'N' Roses, Modest Mouse, The Blood Brothers, Queen, certain country depending on how well the keep the tradition, Jazz, Classical, etc...

With food it really depends on the situation/mood I'm in.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Things guys think about for starters. Don't need to say much more I don't think. What am I supposed to feel? What should I really be doing? Where will I end up in the future? Do I care? Does asking myself if I care in itself mean I care? I know I care about a lot, and I know what many of those things/people/concepts are, but with others am I sure? People find themselves confusing 'habit' with 'caring' and even 'loving' for instance.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Changes
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm pretty much an open book and don't really consider anything a person says to me or asks me as off limits or inappropriate, so ask away. I can't guarantee I'll answer everything, but I can't think of much I wouldn't. Whether I would or wouldn't though, you won't be judged for asking.
You should message me if
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You're interested in having some fun with me, or maybe even just time with me if it's interesting, whatever that may be.

P.S. There seem to be a lot of implications about what I mean by "fun" as if I have my mind in the gutter constantly for saying that... Not saying anything is or isn't off limits, but I'm not using "fun" as an absolute synonym for screwing and while I can't say I haven't enjoyed my sexuality in the past, I can say that you're probably more fucked up than me if you're mind goes immediately to judging me for suggesting screwing right off the bat because that's what YOU think I meant by the word "fun."

P.S.S. I'm not saying I'm against anyone for having a sexually oriented mind/thinking about sex on a regular basis... I'm saying if you are one to think that "fun" instantly means sex and then are immediately going to judge me for saying "fun" as some sort of perv, then you probably need to stop and take a cold hard look at yourself about what you may or may not be denying about yourself to yourself before you approach anyone else with such judgmental eyes.

P.S.S.S. I hate the fact that I'm still rambling about this stupidity. And I TOTALLY don't want it to sound like I'm fixated on this as that would be pretty incriminating if it weren't inspired by something. It has been inspired though considering the number of times people have approached me with this "issue" they have with what they read about me and what-not.