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bentbender

32 M Portland, OR

My Details

Last Online
Sep 22, 2005
Orientation
Gay
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body Type
Diet
Smokes
Yes
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Often
Religion
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Sign
Taurus, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Dropped out of high school
Job
Entertainment / Media
Income
Less than $20,000
Relationship Status
Seeing Someone
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t want kids
Pets
Dislikes dogs and dislikes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Sign Language (Okay)

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My self-summary
Always open to the ever-random internet connections... I've meet some pretty chill peeps through lj, Y!, myspace, etc... didn't realize this was another of them - now the name seems obvious. So, about me... hmmm. I'm kinky as hell, really into certain boys feets... well hell, I'm into everything but poop with the right guys... I'm polyamorous, I'm in a long term relationship with my primary partner, living in Portland now, we've been together a year (7/05) and we have other partners outside of our relationship, together and seperately - we figure we have loved more than one person, we are likely to continue this trend. This allows us to circumnavigate a lot of misinterpretation inherent in most heteromono relationships... I like wierd stuff... I like boy funk, and I like B-movies... I love sitting around bitching about the few dictating to the many. I try to reduce my 'impact' like I have any way of ascertaining the breadth and scope... yargh. I like to make profiles... it soothes me. Self definition is definitely an interest... I hope there's a window for a chunk of keywords, cause that's where you're gonna find a lot of familiarity. Don't assume please, just ask - I won't laugh at you.

I am direct, open, and good-natured
What I’m doing with my life
Living it. Planning is ridiculous. At 24 I've been Christian, Pagan, Athiest, Satanist, Monogomous, Open, Polyamorous, Geek, Goth, Hippie, Punk, Geek again, a burger flipper, a vegan, a Phlebotomist, homeless, a phone-jockey (surveys), a caregiver, janitor, and an escort... I've been in porn, I've never been in jail, I've been to 5 states in the US and never outside the country, but I'm scratching at the surface. I've come out as bisexual, then gay, then actually bi, then kinky (which is a whole 'nuther closet) - I've pierced my own cock, drank my own pee, and stolen cute boys shoes from their porches... I hope to discover things about myself until I die, which means I cannot possibly hope to know what 'direction' I'm fumbling down... I just take it as it comes.
I’m really good at
sensations, compassion, communication, maintainance, reading, photography, smokin' weed, typing, drawing blood, tickling you, having emotions happen all over me, saying the wrong thing, saying the right thing, having ideas, proving my point (eek!), collage, making wierd smells, sniffing you, other stuff I guess.
The first things people usually notice about me
My smile, eyes, and inappropriate conversation. Then I start talking about politics, then I do music, then media, then philosophy - you know, all the things you're not supposed to discuss... yeah, I guess that it would be all the talking...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Terry Pratchet, Kalhil Gibrahn, anything banned.

Dr. Caligari, The House of Yes, City of Lost Children, Frisk, Four Rooms,

Dead Can Dance, Mindless Self Indulgence, Tori Amos

Vegan Lasagna, Cashews, Artichoke, Thai anything
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Bondage (predicament bondage, specifically) skaters, junkies, horrible things that I would never do in real life, more horrible things... ways to make a new thing that goes w00t! Uhm... how I'm going to pay my rent, how to communicate that one that that one guy misinterpreted in eigth grade, whether or not I should write this down, the past, my ex, my brain. I'm gonna throw my keywords here : art, friends, torture, idealism, bdsm, photography, nudity, squirming, feet, bondage, webcams, tickle torture, 420, smoke, toes, piss, pain, fun, sweat, individuals, sneakers, domination, exhibitionism, stimulation, duct tape, lisa simpson, armpits, boys, burning man, collage, digital, dirty, expressions, foreskin, harvey milk, hiking, interesting sounds, kinky, omnipotence, oregon, performance art, polyamory, switch-hitter, too many keywords, writing, bisexual, gay male, barefooters, 20's, caning and spanking, bondage, submission, tickling, electro stimulation, erotic fighting, yaoi and yuri, medical, fisting, role playing, sex toys, amateurs, weirdos, no limits, gags, flashing, genital mutilation, intoxication, porn stars, cutting and shaving, money slaves, big beautiful women, leathermen, boots, socks, latex rubber and vinyl, duct tape, aggression, ankles, ascertion, astral projection, being giddy, biting, bottoms, bumble bees, changing, cigarettes, communication, compulsive masturbation, connection, curiousity, digital stuff, dirty boys, dreaming life, drugs, eccentricity, electric devices, eros bodyglide, eugene, expressions, feeling, flavours, flirting, freaks, free-balling, geeks, goths, grey, hardcore, healers, hickies, hiking, hippies, honesty, hopefulness, hot springs, industrial, intense stimulation, kinky people, laughter, leather, liggett, lunatics, magick, non-reality awareness, odours, openness, oysters, peircings, people, performance art, perversion, PORTLAND, public sex, punks, queers, randomness, rats, reflection, risky behavior, scratching, sensuality, sin, slow sex, snakes, spirit energy, squirming, squirting, stoners, switch-hitters, synchronicity, tattoos, telepathy, thinking, tops, touching, trepidation, underwear, waking life, wax, women, wrists, writing, yes, you
On a typical Friday night I am
horny, with my bf, eating, stoned. I DO not like bars, I love raves/clubs but can't afford them... my friends tend to glob around... i like that... but I'd rather be...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
anything about me that you want to ask - I already admitted things that probably made you cringe. Want more? http://www.pridesites.com/fetish/Rayn

or http://pound-puppies.com/rayn

don't say I didn't warn you!
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like guys
  • Ages 23–50
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
you are curious, open, interested, experienced, and you have read all this. if you are local, and wanting to hang out. If you are dirty, in any sense of the term. BUT MOST ESPECIALLY (and don't be intimidated if you're not these things) if you are : gutterpunky, sweaty, uncut, out, into feet, into piss, cute, young, pale, open, communicative, emotionally responsible, aware, curious, fun, geeky, intelligent, horny, submissive, and/or if you have a boner from reading my profile.