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25 M San Francisco, CA

My Details

Last Online
Today – 10:48am
6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Atheism, and laughing about it
Gemini, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Science / Engineering
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay), C++ (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Hi there. My name (if you haven't figured it out) is Ben. I am a semi-nerdy but overly social guy who loves conversation. My life passions are music, science and math. I have hustled a way to get paid for the science and math part, leaving music to be my mistress.
What I’m doing with my life
I used to work on these robots:

I currently work for a startup using Robotics technology paired with Pixar quality animation/storytelling to entertain children. ( I spend a lot of my free time playing instruments (they clutter my apartment now). Been working on getting into shape recently, with fairly positive results.

Also ultimate frisbee (Go Disc Blocs!).
I’m really good at
Jamming with people. That really applies both to music and random conversation. Intellectual conversations are great, and ridiculous inside jokes are awesome too. I have a couple of music groups that I play in and we get to gig around the city!
The first things people usually notice about me
I am loud and self confident. I also am pretty shameless when it comes to dancing, so no worries about awkward corner standing here. It takes longer for people to figure out that I am in fact a giant teddy bear.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Movies: The Hunt for Red October, The Matrix, The Shawshank Redemption.

Books: The Hydrogen Sonata (Just read it, got into the whole Culture Series), Gödel Escher Bach, Asimov's foundation series, Heart's Blood series, Book of Three Series.

TV: Chappelle's Show, The Boondocks, Mythbusters, Junkyard Wars, Community, Burn Notice

Classic Rock: Jethro Tull, Steely Dan, Led Zeppelin, The Doobie Brothers, The Beatles

Jazz: SMV, The Manhatten Transfer, Wynton Marsalis, Herbie Hancock, Woody Herman (most of the bands he has put together), Victor Wooten, Miles Davis, Count Basie

EDM: Savant, Mord Fustang, Wolfgang Gartner, Feed Me, Knife Party, TheFatRat, PrototypeRaptor, Zedd, Daft Punk, Swedish Houes Mafia

Rock: The Red Hot Chili Peppers, The Strokes, Keane, Cake, Pearl Jam, Death Cab for Cutie, Savant, Phoenix

Funk: Jamiroquai, Tower of Power, Isley Brothers, Pigeons Playing Ping Pong, Kool and the Gang, Diana Ross

Chill Music: AltJ, MGMT, Empire of the Sun, Radiohead, Bonobo, Last Lynx, Passion Pit, Thirteen Senses
The six things I could never do without
My Bass Guitar
A Computer
A Piano
A Frisbee
A firm bed
My Teddy Bear!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
What happiness is all about and how to maximize it. New hobbies to try, new restaurants to try. Sometimes I think about really deep stuff too, like the impact of technology on people and the future. Robots. I for one, welcome our new robot overlords.
On a typical Friday night I am
Out somewhere with friends, usually involving a sit down dinner and drinks.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I still love my teddy bear.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 22–28
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You are a fan of music in general (playing not necessary).

You think anything that I do/ am interested in sounds fun and want to join.