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25 M San Francisco, CA

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 8:43am
6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Atheism, and laughing about it
Gemini, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Science / Engineering
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay), C++ (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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Hi there. My name (if you haven't figured it out) is Ben. I am a semi-nerdy but overly social guy who loves conversation. My life passions are music, science and math. I have hustled a way to get paid for the science and math part, leaving music to be my mistress.
What I’m doing with my life
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I used to work on these robots:

I currently work for a startup using Robotics technology paired with Pixar quality animation/storytelling to entertain children. ( I spend a lot of my free time playing instruments (they clutter my apartment now). Been working on getting into shape recently, with fairly positive results.

Also ultimate frisbee (Go Disc Blocs!).

I attend a large number of concerts every year. Recent highlights include Snarky Puppy, Stanley Clarke, and Wolfgang Gartner.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Jamming with people. That really applies both to music and random conversation. Intellectual conversations are great, and ridiculous inside jokes are awesome too. I have a couple of music groups that I play in and we get to gig around the city!
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I am loud and self confident. I also am pretty shameless when it comes to dancing, so no worries about awkward corner standing here. It takes longer for people to figure out that I am in fact a giant teddy bear.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Movies: The Hunt for Red October, The Matrix, The Shawshank Redemption.

Books: The Hydrogen Sonata (Just read it, got into the whole Culture Series), Gödel Escher Bach, Asimov's foundation series, Heart's Blood series, Book of Three Series.

TV: Chappelle's Show, The Boondocks, Mythbusters, Junkyard Wars, Community, Burn Notice

Classic Rock: Jethro Tull, Steely Dan, Led Zeppelin, The Doobie Brothers, The Beatles

Jazz: SMV, The Manhatten Transfer, Wynton Marsalis, Herbie Hancock, Woody Herman (most of the bands he has put together), Victor Wooten, Miles Davis, Count Basie

EDM: Savant, Mord Fustang, Wolfgang Gartner, Feed Me, Knife Party, TheFatRat, PrototypeRaptor, Zedd, Daft Punk, Swedish Houes Mafia

Rock: The Red Hot Chili Peppers, The Strokes, Keane, Cake, Pearl Jam, Death Cab for Cutie, Savant, Phoenix

Funk: Jamiroquai, Tower of Power, Isley Brothers, Pigeons Playing Ping Pong, Kool and the Gang, Diana Ross, Snarky Puppy

Chill Music: AltJ, MGMT, Empire of the Sun, Radiohead, Bonobo, Last Lynx, Passion Pit, Thirteen Senses
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My Bass Guitar
A Computer
A Piano
A Frisbee
Projectors and Screens
Good Scotch
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What happiness is all about and how to maximize it. New hobbies to try, new restaurants to try. Sometimes I think about really deep stuff too, like the impact of technology on people and the future. Robots. I for one, welcome our new robot overlords.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Out somewhere with friends, usually involving a sit down dinner and drinks.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I still love my teddy bear.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 24–28
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
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You are a fan of music in general (playing not necessary).

You think anything that I do/ am interested in sounds fun and want to join.

I want to add that I am not one who is freaked out or turned off when a lady messages me first.