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bentose

25 / M / Gay / Single

Berea, Ohio

His Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 9:24pm
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 9″ (1.75m).
Body Type
Skinny
Diet
Mostly vegetarian
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Leo but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Artistic / Musical / Writer
Income
Less than $20,000
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Dislikes dogs and dislikes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Can I have someone else write this? I suppose it wouldn't be a self-summary then.

My name is Ben. I am 24 years old and I'm a Theatrical Lighting Designer. If you aren't sure what that is I'd be glad to fill you in (I rather enjoy talking about it). Upside: I'm pretty darn good at my job. Downside: it doesn't pay all that much. But I love it.

I live with my parents - try not to judge too harshly! I'm planning to move out this summer, but until then, they are pretty great people and I'm not paying rent.

I am an artist, but I'm also intelligent, analytical, and sometimes logical to a fault. I enjoy discussing politics and other controversial topics, especially with people who are smarter or better informed than myself.

Ok...I think I'll leave it at that.
What I’m doing with my life
I kinda answered this above...
I'm designing lights (and recently also sets) for theatrical and dance productions all over Cleveland, Cincinnati, and occasionally further away. My schedule is insane, bu that's far better than being bored.
I’m really good at
Plenty of things, but answering this prompt is not one.
The first things people usually notice about me
My beard...it can get kinda out of control.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Obviously just a sample:

Books: Ishmael, Harry Potter, A Song of Ice and Fire, The Longest Memory, Jitterbug Perfume

Movies: I like movies a lot, but I'm having trouble starting this list...

Music: Rufus Wainwright, Mika, Norah Jones, Munford and Sons, Walk The Moon, The Beatles, Judy Garland, Billie Holiday

Television: Downton Abbey, Merlin, Smash, Lie to Me, Leverage
The six things I could never do without
Without regard to priority:

My iPad
Books (however many can fit in one of my six things)
A creative outlet
A few great friends
Tie line and gaff tape (theater joke, but true)
Wine or Gin (I could live without one as long as I had the other)

(apparently also can't do without parentheticals)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Where my life is going next and how that fits into the positive change I'd like to be a part of in Cleveland.
On a typical Friday night I am
In rehearsal or at an opening night (to which I might wear a bow tie)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm a pretty open person, but I have no idea what to write for this prompt. Ask me a question, you'll probably get an honest answer.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like guys
  • Ages 23–28
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, activity partners
You should message me if
I haven't convinced you not to over the course of reading this profile.