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Last online
Yesterday – 9:48pm
6' 3" (1.91m)
Body Type
Average build
Buddhism and laughing about it
Has kid(s)
English (Fluently), Greek (Somewhat), Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
By the way, if you do 'like' me, please send a message as I am not able to see likes otherwise unless they are already 'mutual', it seems...

I am a musician (Horn player, vocalist, keyboardist and guitarist), writer (lyrics, articles, ruminations), imagist (photo, video)...lover of subtlety, natural harmonics and details, in bound volumes, film, music, and even sports (subtlety mostly found in baseball and soccer, but I'll watch football and occasionally basketball for entertainment -- and the Warriors are getting pretty entertaining lately...Tour de France, Tour de France)

Wind, watercourses and the sea...

I would like to think of myself as thoughtful, sensual, spiritual and questing...

I am also the divorced father of two cool kids (14 and 16...I share custody 50%, incl. alternate weekends)…
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Taking things one day at a time...

Still playing music. Writing (continuing new gig I'm really excited about), 'blogging'...More rehearsing, good pieces. Caught up on Community, best comedic (or really any kind of) writing I have seen in years...watching Rashomon, for the first time, one of the few Kurosawa's I've missed...

Have recently seen numerous great documentaries: Ike and Tina On the Road 1971-1972 (just wrote a piece on it for, The Source Family (Netflix), and docs on Big Star and George Plimpton (at Roxie). The Hired Hand (Peter Fonda follow up to Easy Rider, with Warren Oates), Her, Blue Jasmine, Searching For Sugarman (Rodriguez is a special being, saw him perform at Slim's a few years ago), Jodorowsky's Dune.

Childish Gambino, Kraftwerk, Empire of the Sun, Juana Molina, The Garden (Shears Twins), Future Twin, Alela Diane, Sharon Van Etten, Peter Murphy, Lee Fields -- shows recently attended, Lorde, Slowdive, shows I hope to attend....

Enjoying being a Water Snake...

Music, music, music...
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Thinking, joking, swimming, lying on a beach, playing trumpet and keyboards, singing, dancing, kissing...

Knowing about geography, music, history, baseball, soccer, tour de France... I tend to win trivia contests

Witty comments...

The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
eyes, hair, voice, height, thoughts, humor
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
too many to start listing...very eclectic, if pressed I could state some...Won't Get Fooled Again, On The Map, Bomber, Telegraph Avenue, Loose Balls, Cloud Atlas, Black Swan Green, Visit From the Goon Squad, Art of Fielding, Tuesdays With Morrie, Patti Smith's Just Kids, Maphead, Big Hair and Plastic Grass, Cardboard Gods, anything by Kurt Vonnegut, James Jones' Thin Red Line...just read a couple of books by Michael Shaara...The Killer Angels is civil war on acid -- too bad Terence Malick didn't get the film rights instead of Ted Turner...

Atlases --
History tomes

Throw out some sounds: Miles, Beatles, Beach House, Beach Boys, Kinks and Stones, Savath and Savalas, The Juan McLean, The Who, Frank Ocean, Far East Movement, Field Music, Mojave 3, Cut Copy, Prince, Caribou, Kraftwerk, Bon Iver, Love, Drake, Neil Young, Crusaders, Shocking Blue, Matthew Fisher, Steve Hillage, Tycho, Mux Mool, Kurt Vile, Sharon Van Etten, vintage African, Ratatat, Panda Bear, Band of Horses, Cabaret Voltaire, Budos Band, Joan As Police Woman, Cat Power, Brick, Chic, Tribe Called ..., Yellow Magic Orchestra, Pantha du Prince, the Three O' Clock, CTI, Impulse, ECM labels

Prog -- saw Steve Hackett last April, and the Du Nord Prog Fest...

funk, go on...Loose Joints at the Make Out, The Layover...

psychedelia -

spaghetti westerns -films and soundtracks (Morricone, Piccioni)

sci fi -- original Star Trek is my bible, but I liked the new film as well...
Der Gross und Stark Oz
Midnight In Paris
Casa de mi Padre
Moonrise Kingdom
The Wire

classic comedies, Bugs Bunny, SCTV, Arrested Development, Flight of the Conchords, Regular Show, Dave Chappelle, Monty Python, old SNL, Piano Fight, Crisis Hopkins, community

Ken Russell, Jim Jarmusch, Almodovar, Peckinpaugh, Woody Allen, Hitchcock, Kurosawa, Melville, Herzog, Malick, Anderson, Cronenberg (disappointed with his latest, however), Jodorowsky

Food -- Ethiopian, Trex, Bowl'd, kojak cart, arki truck, creme brulee, Gracias Madras, Hotsy Totsy
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.





Great images
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Rhythm, music and lyrics, maps, flying, my kids, great films, beauty, classic cars, road trips, beaches, water, space, dancing, trivia
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Either with my kids or out at an event, dancing, an art opening, music gig, movie, maybe a beach sunset (getting teased with this), sometimes with a good dvd or sports event and home cooked meal...sometimes hitting the road...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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that I'm typing this
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
you got what it takes...which means you are willing and/or able to see beyond what time and space constraints I may have, to allow for an intensely passionate and intellectually stimulating relationship to develop.....I can just chill as well, if that is what is desired...