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30 Oakland, CA Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 28–42
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Oct 4
5' 6" (1.68m)
Body Type
Agnosticism but it’s not important
Post grad
Might want kids
English (Fluently), Swedish (Somewhat), Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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Just moved back to Bay Area after a couple years in NYC. I miss New York but it's damn good to be back in California. Ambitious, driven, fun-loving, undeniably goofy at heart. I find a fancy night at the ballet, camping, and drinking a beer by the pool equally enjoyable.
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm a social worker/therapist. I really love my work but don't feel defined by what I do. Also a writer and a yoga teacher.
I’m really good at
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Hula hooping.
The first things people usually notice about me
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my hair
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Still Life with Woodpecker by Tom Robbins is my all time favorite. I also enjoy some DFW, Franzen, and Freud. That's a short sample from a long list ;)

Happy Go Lucky, Secretary, Silver Linings Playbook.

Anything I can dance to. Motown. Electro pop. the classics and the classical

I love my healthy meat and veggies but I also have a weak spot for french fries and good cheese.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
that one perfect cup of coffee
travel adventures
why give away all six?
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
metacognition, what I'm going to have for lunch and whether that will include dessert, how dang funny Louis CK is.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
unwinding from the week, either out with friends or at home relaxing. Generally avoiding the crowd, unless I want to go dance and get lost in it.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I went to a Tori Amos concert with my mom.
You should message me if
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you appreciate a mostly good-natured woman who also has a sullen, sensual, sensitive side.
you are light-hearted, laid back, and perhaps a little goofy.
you are not a serious drinker of soylent.
you are kind, generous, and a grown a$$ man.