Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I might seem complicated from the outside- don't that let that
dissuade you, I'm actually pretty simple inside.
I suffered hardships, overcame challenges, fought battles,
sacrificed much, burned bridges, forged friendships, squandered
opportunity, gotten lucky, and learned from most of it- mostly that
I'm fuckin' still not done learning yet...
I have many interests and, a few plans.
To love someone forever is one of them.
A partnership would be excellent.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
That would be telling...
I will say though that technology, thinking and creativity are
often involved. Fun sometimes too.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Not a brag list at this time...
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Used to be that I was tall, then the glasses (I've never worn
contacts- can't be bothered.). Need to take new pics- no longer
have the dreads...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
My tastes are eclectic.
I guess it's easier to say what I don't like:
I don't read romance novels.
I don't watch much TV and have no sports affiliation. I rarely go
to movies since I don't see many commercials, which is, I guess
somewhat surprising since I don't often feel like I'm missing
I don't listen to most Country, most current Rap, Any Reggae, Ska,
Bluegrass, or Polka unless it's weird Al.
Currently into Universal Hall Pass.
I don't eat okra unless it's in gumbo. I'm learning to avoid crap
additives & fillers.
I'll try most things though.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Love, though I'm having to make do
Compassion, though it seems harder to express
Logic, though the world makes less sense now
Motivation, though mine often seems forced
Learning, the last thing that still comes naturally
Power*- though I have little.
*but if I get some... MUAHAHA!
I should mention, in this day and age, that freedom is power.
Respond to it's change with inaction at your peril.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
1. The intrinsic nature of the universe, rules &
2. Metaphysics (see 1 above)
3. Spirituality, and the 'all that is' (see 2 above)
4. Philosophy, free agency & desire (see 3 above)
5. Sex (who doesn't? (see 4 above)
6. One of my various projects.
(not involving sex... no patterns here- well, it's a coincidental
pattern. Completely coincidental.)
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Working on the dream, or escaping from the grind.
On occasion, both simultaneously (bonus!).
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Fah. Like you wanna know...
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
I'm not going to try to define 'awesome'- I just hope to recognize
it when presented.
I'm very open-minded, which means there are a lot of potential
interests here. I've wasted a lot of time trying to connect with
people. I think it's time for people who really want to connect to
let me know who they are.
No promises, except I'll that 'play nice'- but I'm always impressed
by someone who knows what they want & will take steps to make
It's the 21st century ladies...
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