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bertnot

48 Syracuse, NY Man

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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 26–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 6:17pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Black
Height
6′ 4″ (1.93m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Mostly other
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other, but not too serious about it
Sign
Pisces, but it doesn’t matter
Job
Technology
Income
Rather not say
Status
Single
Type
Strictly monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), French (Poorly), Japanese (Okay), C++ (Okay)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I might seem complicated from the outside- don't that let that dissuade you, I'm actually pretty simple inside.

I suffered hardships, overcame challenges, fought battles, sacrificed much, burned bridges, forged friendships, squandered opportunity, gotten lucky, and learned from most of it- mostly that I'm fuckin' still not done learning yet...

I have many interests and, a few plans.
To love someone forever is one of them.
A partnership would be excellent.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
That would be telling...

I will say though that technology, thinking and creativity are often involved. Fun sometimes too.

Come play!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Not a brag list at this time...
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Used to be that I was tall, then the glasses (I've never worn contacts- can't be bothered.). Need to take new pics- no longer have the dreads...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
My tastes are eclectic.
I guess it's easier to say what I don't like:
I don't read romance novels.
I don't watch much TV and have no sports affiliation. I rarely go to movies since I don't see many commercials, which is, I guess somewhat surprising since I don't often feel like I'm missing much.
I don't listen to most Country, most current Rap, Any Reggae, Ska, Bluegrass, or Polka unless it's weird Al.
Currently into Universal Hall Pass.
I don't eat okra unless it's in gumbo. I'm learning to avoid crap additives & fillers.
I'll try most things though.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Love, though I'm having to make do
Compassion, though it seems harder to express
Logic, though the world makes less sense now
Motivation, though mine often seems forced
Learning, the last thing that still comes naturally
Power*- though I have little.

*but if I get some... MUAHAHA!
(just kidding)
I should mention, in this day and age, that freedom is power. Respond to it's change with inaction at your peril.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
1. The intrinsic nature of the universe, rules & patterns.
2. Metaphysics (see 1 above)
3. Spirituality, and the 'all that is' (see 2 above)
4. Philosophy, free agency & desire (see 3 above)
5. Sex (who doesn't? (see 4 above)
6. One of my various projects.
(not involving sex... no patterns here- well, it's a coincidental pattern. Completely coincidental.)
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Working on the dream, or escaping from the grind.
On occasion, both simultaneously (bonus!).
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Fah. Like you wanna know...
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You're awesome.
I'm not going to try to define 'awesome'- I just hope to recognize it when presented.
You're interested.
I'm very open-minded, which means there are a lot of potential interests here. I've wasted a lot of time trying to connect with people. I think it's time for people who really want to connect to let me know who they are.
No promises, except I'll that 'play nice'- but I'm always impressed by someone who knows what they want & will take steps to make it happen.
It's the 21st century ladies...