Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm not messaging anyone anymore.
I'm looking for someone who's an equal and believes in
Someone who has courage.
Wasting my time trying to glimpse those qualities in profiles is
tiresome and error-prone, so as much as I like to reach out to
others, I'm trusting you to reach out to me now.
Hope to hear from you soon.
* * *
I might seem complicated from the outside- don't that let that
dissuade you, I'm actually pretty simple inside.
I suffered hardships, overcame challenges, fought battles,
sacrificed much, burned bridges, forged friendships, squandered
opportunity, gotten lucky, and learned from most of it- mostly that
I'm fuckin' still not done learning yet...
I have many interests and, a few plans.
To love someone forever is one of them.
A partnership would be excellent.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
That would be telling...
I will say though that technology, thinking and creativity are
often involved. Fun sometimes too.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Not a brag list at this time...
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Used to be that I was tall, then the glasses (I've never worn
contacts- can't be bothered.). Need to take new pics- no longer
have the dreads...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
My tastes are eclectic.
I guess it's easier to say what I don't like:
I don't read romance novels.
I don't watch much TV and have no sports affiliation. I rarely go
to movies since I don't see many commercials, which is, I guess
somewhat surprising since I don't often feel like I'm missing
I don't listen to most Country, most current Rap, Any Reggae, Ska,
Bluegrass, or Polka unless it's weird Al.
Currently into Universal Hall Pass.
I don't eat okra unless it's in gumbo. I'm learning to avoid crap
additives & fillers.
I'll try most things though.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Love, though I'm having to make do
Compassion, though it seems harder to express
Logic, though the world makes less sense now
Motivation, though mine often seems forced
Learning, the last thing that still comes naturally
Power*- though I have little.
*but if I get some... MUAHAHA!
I should mention, in this day and age, that freedom is power.
Respond to it's change with inaction at your peril.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
1. The intrinsic nature of the universe, rules &
2. Metaphysics (see 1 above)
3. Spirituality, and the 'all that is' (see 2 above)
4. Philosophy, free agency & desire (see 3 above)
5. Sex (who doesn't? (see 4 above)
6. One of my various projects.
(not involving sex... no patterns here- well, it's a coincidental
pattern. Completely coincidental.)
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Working on the dream, or escaping from the grind.
On occasion, both simultaneously (bonus!).
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Fah. Like you wanna know...
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
Compassion, consideration, respect...
That lot. Even in little things.
No one likes to be left hanging, or to have to 'figure it out' when
a few words would have settled it.
I'm not going to try to define 'awesome'- I just hope to recognize
it when presented.
You can have fears, but you should be proud that you face
You act on your passions, and communicate/confront difficulties-
even with (or especially with) your partner who might 'take it the
wrong way', but you trust to work it out with...
So, if you really want to connect to let me know.
It's the 21st century ladies- you're only as equal as you exercise
your right to be...
I'm very open-minded, which means there are a lot of potential
interests here. I've wasted a lot of time trying to connect with
people, who generally are just looking for an excuse to write me
off. I'm not on 'best behavior' because I want an honest
relationship. I'm done 'chasing rainbows'.
No promises, except I'll that 'play nice'- but I'm always at least
impressed by someone who knows what they want & will take steps
to make it happen.
All that said, I can't see 'Likes'- so you'll have to at least hide
your interest in the form of a question about my profile. I'll make
'Who am I' Riddles (increasing difficulty):
falls down in vain
cause the snow is still lain
but even so the sun's out
the wind soon will blow- without a doubt
Trying not to lean
to into the scene
of the future of green
Your optimism makes you sing
cause now it's here- embrace the... [_]
Random events synchronize
(or just might if you realize)
Is that knocking that you hear?
development you had to steer?
Will you stand by, or will you please,
Grab on to me... [_]
Could you even tell the shade
of gem that's in this necklace made
so lovingly and polished fine
to craft it must have taken time
I could call it and a girl might come
Kiss it, and it's stain be left on some
To hold it would be a tiny bit of wealth
and when rose, an expression beyond one's self
Who am I?
Don't bother googling- I made these myself.
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