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bertnot

42 / M / straight / Single

San Antonio, Texas

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Ethnicity
Black
Height
6' 4" (1.93m).
Body Type
Thin
Looking For
Long-term dating
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Pisces but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from high school
Job
Computer / Hardware / Software
Income
Rather not say
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Likes dogs and Likes cats
Languages
English (Fluently), French (Poorly), Japanese (Poorly), LISP (Poorly), C++ (Okay)

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I am inquisitive, compassionate, and unique.

My Self-Summary

I wear glasses because I'm not big on contacts, smile occasionally :P, and dress somewhere between casual and business, sometimes teetering toward geek.

I have a good sense of humor, am honest, loyal, and supportive. I can be hard-working, but prefer to work smarter, not harder. I'm compassionate, and considerate, which sometimes makes me seem like too much of a 'nice guy' for people to take seriously.

I am very creative, and am passionate about whatever projects I am currently working on. These range from art/writing projects to programming/3d graphics. I may get into video again soon- we'll have to see if I have enough time- I'm not so keen on starting projects I can't reasonably expect to complete.

What I’m doing with my life

I'm writing some 3D software to soon sell after polishing it up, running my consulting business, researching some aspects of game design I'm working through, hanging with friends, and watching the occasional movie/video.

I watched the Watchmen a while back and was surprised- For the first time in movie history, they changed an ending for the better! I just watched 'Cirque du Freak: The Vampire's Assistant', and was rather pleased, though some of the special effects were a little cartoony.

I’m really good at

Organizing. Solving problems. Video games, though I rarely play them nowadays. Supporting friends.

The first things people usually notice about me

I'm tall- then the goatee & dreads.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

I'm big on reference works strangely enough- learning is good- and sci-fi-fantasy, healing/acupuncture/martial arts. I also like researching things spiritual, and read the occasional 'occult' work, though with open-minded skepticism.

I'll check out most any movie, but usually like action/martial arts/sci-fi/fantasy a bit more- though a good drama kicks ass too.

I like all kinds of music, but are Jonesin' for some Cars & Tom Petty for some reason.

I like all kinds of food, but particularly need to have Korean again soon. I like buffets. Pick what you like, try something new is good to me.

The six things I could never do without

Love
Compassion
Logic
Motivation
Learning
Power*

*don't fear it- even weakness is a strength- yin & yang.

I spend a lot of time thinking about

1. The all that is.
2. The Nature of things
3. The Interconnectedness of existence
4. The Intrinsic nature of the universe.
5. My love, if applicable- (currently not)
6. One of my various projects.
7. Sex- who doesn't?
8. The idea that somewhere out there is a woman who is smarter than me- or at least way more compassionate which is much more important in the grand scheme of things.

On a typical Friday night I am

Hanging out at a friend's house having fun, or coding. Every one in a while I go to a movie or something- but only recently have I been motivated to see anything.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I need to buy more sneaks. I walk a lot (I like the exercise) so I've wear them out pretty quick & the last pair I got were very comfortable, but pretty plain.

You should message me if

You wanna meet a nice, funny guy who likes cool people, and knows what friendship means.

I mean- where can you even find that anymore?

On the other hand- if you don't know what you want, or are not willing to pursue it, we won't get along. I'm not keen on liars, actresses or chameleons either. You are you, not what you think I want.

In any case, best wishes to all...