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betabuffy

33 F Denver, CO

My Details

Last Online
Jul 10
Orientation
Bisexual
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Pisces
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Medicine
Income
Relationship Status
Seeing Someone
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Likes dogs
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
***Livin in Grand Junction, now, but head to Denver often.

****In a relationship (with one who hales from man-landia), looking for conscious ladies willing to enter into nontraditional dynamics that work for everyone involved. I wouldn't ask you to hang out with my guy, but you are welcome to, and he is super great.

I just graduated nursing school. So.

I like written and spoken word, the fifth chakra, color blue, and saraswati. Also, silence. I'm telling you these things because you may never find out otherwise.
What I’m doing with my life
Short version:
sorry to be cliche, but figuring out the meaning of life
becoming present
working on new unexplored ways of being in intimate relationships
being low impact going on no impact
launching into my new nursing career as a mental health RN
I’m really good at
quirkiness
being a softy
self-deprecation
Ujjayi breathing
tests

guessing sun signs
the healing touch
storytelling

overdramatics
math
talking to kids
loving unconditionally
laughing

In the spirit of balance, here's my really bad at list:
waiting in traffic jams
remembering street sweeping day
paying parking tickets on time
football/basketball/anything involving a ball...or the act of throwing
okay, anything involving a ball or a car
or a part of a car
The first things people usually notice about me
Depends on the situation. Some direct quotes?
"She is nice and fun." - Julie from third grade on the compliment board
"You are resourceful." - Amon from high school honors English class on the self-esteem board (we did a lot of these things in school)
"Hey lookin good - I like that tattoo." - dude on the street
"You are the spittin image of your mother." - relative I hadn't seen in a long time
"You have a lot of alternative things." - old roommate

Oh and I was voted gentlest by the counselors at summer camp. But my friends thought this was funny.

Other things people say alot:
that I'm really "relaxed" and "calm"
that I look like I've got a secret/ I'm mysterious
that I appear to think a lot
that I got good dance moves
also: I'm "sweet"

But if I had to gamble, I'd put money on the breasts.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Fingersmith, Tipping the Velvet, Drawing Down the Moon, anything by Tom Robbins, Anais Nin, Sharon Olds, Elizabeth Alexander, many spiritual texts

Movies: The Lives of Others, But I'm a Cheerleader, Kissing Jessica Stein, Phoebe in Wonderland, Once, Hedwig and the Angry Inch, Waitress, Dakota Skye, Mary and Max, Juno

Jesus Camp, Crazy Sexy Cancer, The Business of Being Born, Enlighten UP - and similar documentaries

Music: folk festivals. Ani Difranco, Lucinda Williams, Girlyman, The Swell Season, Neko Case, Bon Iver, Kings of Leon, The Beatles, Joshua Radin, Missy Higgins, Sigur Ros

Radio? NPR addict here

Food:
a. local
b. anything made with spinach and feta, or spinach and ricotta, just feta, sundried tomatos, bananas, or pumpkin

c. ethiopian, indian, mediterranean, healthy, artistic concoctions.

d. tea, chai, chocolate, wine, fruit (especially mangos), cheese, whipped cream, green chili

e. thanksgiving, home-cooked meals, pot-lucks, festival food, pumpkin pie

ideally, i avoid TV. but I don't. that said, here's my guilty pleasure list...

Defunct TV all-time favorites: buffy the vampire slayer, L-word, avatar the last airbender, seinfeld, arrested development, gilmore girls, battlestar galactica

Current series: dexter, true blood, lost girl, game of thrones, orange is the new black

(sometimes i like well-done TV shows better than movies - because they go on and on)
The six things I could never do without
I'm freakishly adaptable. I could probably thrive on the planet Hoobywooby if the natives were kind.
Umm...but I'm pretty partial to my life-size Buffy cutout.

Traditional format answer:
dreams
babies or children
rivers
stories
a pair of boots
NPR
I spend a lot of time thinking about
My thoughts are ridiculous. I try to spend as little time as possible thinking them.

You get a kiss if you can help me out with that.
On a typical Friday night I am
Chillin with my homey (bf), havin a few people over, usually at home, sometimes out n about.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Pretty much any time someone cries in a movie, I cry too. No patronizing!
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like girls
  • Ages 24–46
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
Your horoscope told you to. Or your tarot cards hinted at it. You are the kind of awesome weirdo who doesn't mind I'm in a relationship with a man. Also, this should be obvious, but women only, please. Thank you.