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bethedream4me

54 Topeka, KS Man

Man

I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 40–57
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Oct 26
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 5″ (1.96m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity
Sign
Sagittarius, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Technology
Income
$80,000–$100,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
First, I am healthy, positive, active, confident, and adventurous with a healthy curiosity and zest for life. I like new things and have enjoyed a wide variety of events in the past including pro and college sports, flying in a glider and small plane, white water rafting, sailing, racing go karts, snow skiing, biking, hiking, canoeing, etc. I'm always open to doing any of these or trying new things.

I can dress up and be quite sophisticated and articulate to attend an art showing, play, symphony or wine tasting event, or be just as comfortable in jeans at a bar watching the game or just hanging with friends. I also like to have some fun and dance to live music, hit a comedy club, attend a costume party, take in a rock concert.

I have an artistic nature and appreciate art, music, literature, even some poetry. I've particularly enjoyed performing arts events like Blue Man Group, Stomp, Riverdance, Cirque du Soleil., Medieval Times dinner. I'm a musician (guitar, drums) and like to sing karaoke. I enjoy a wide variety of genres including classic rock, new rock, blues, smooth jazz, country, some classical. I like anything that touches the soul. I'm currently studying spiritual and philosophical concepts, although I can keep these to myself if it's not your thing. I am intelligent and like communication, both verbal or non.

I'm genuine, affectionate, romantic, passionate, and sensual...I like holding hands and being close, listening to music, enjoying scented candles or incense. I'm honest, caring, kind-hearted, and can be very loving to a special someone. I want to picnic by the river, watch the sunset, cook together, sip wine by firelight, dance in the moonlight, make s'mores over a campfire. I will play guitar and sing a favorite song, cuddle during a thunderstorm, give caring caresses and heartfelt, passionate kisses.

I am easy-going and looking for someone who has similar traits to develop a strong connection and build empathy. So if you also are fun to be with, attractive, and feel we have a lot in common, message me...unless you also believe you are Joan of Arc, see leprechauns wandering around your house, or have been abducted by aliens more than once! Hey...a guy needs to have his standards! haha

BTW, my profile is 100% written by me and is my honest description of myself and who I am seeking. However, quantities of me are limited, so act now! And if you send a message before midnight tonight, you will receive a cool-sounding, although totally useless. kitchen gadget absolutely free! (Other than the exorbitant "shipping and handling" charges you are billed, of course.)
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Travelling, trying new things, experiencing life. I also have some ambitious financial dreams and plans.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Music... guitar, drums, singing, and having a great time. Being spontaneous and easy going. Passion, sensuality, and developing a deep connection for incredible intimacy.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm tall and handsome (so I'm told), although I don't see it so much myself. But who am I to argue? :-)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Illusions (Richard Bach), Conversations with God (Neale Donald Walsh)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
music, travel, family, friends, trying new things, sex (hey, at least I'm honest!)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
That I'm a really great guy with so much to offer in many areas ;-) and wondering when a fantastic, beautiful, sweet, intelligent woman will realize that we would make the perfect couple.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Travelling somewhere for the weekend, attending some fun event, out on a date (although still looking for "the one").
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'd love to try tantric sex.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You are attractive, healthy, interesting, have similar interests, are fun, like affection (holding hands, cuddling, etc.), find me attractive, like to travel and try new things.