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bethedream4me

54 M Topeka, KS

My Details

Last Online
Jan 10
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 5″ (1.96m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity
Sign
Sagittarius, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Technology
Income
$80,000–$100,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
First, I am healthy, positive, active, confident, and adventurous with a healthy curiosity and zest for life. I like new things and have enjoyed a wide variety of events in the past including pro and college sports, flying in a glider and small plane, white water rafting, sailing, racing go karts, snow skiing, biking, hiking, canoeing, etc. I'm always open to doing any of these or trying new things.

I can dress up and be quite sophisticated and articulate to attend an art showing, play, symphony or wine tasting event, or be just as comfortable in jeans at a bar watching the game or just hanging with friends. I also like to have some fun and dance to live music, hit a comedy club, attend a costume party, take in a rock concert.

I have an artistic nature and appreciate art, music, literature, even some poetry. I've particularly enjoyed performing arts events like Blue Man Group, Stomp, Riverdance, Cirque du Soleil., Medieval Times dinner. I'm a musician (guitar, drums) and like to sing karaoke. I enjoy a wide variety of genres including classic rock, new rock, blues, smooth jazz, country, some classical. I like anything that touches the soul. I'm currently studying spiritual and philosophical concepts, although I can keep these to myself if it's not your thing. I am intelligent and like communication, both verbal or non.

I'm genuine, affectionate, romantic, passionate, and sensual...I like holding hands and being close, listening to music, enjoying scented candles or incense. I'm honest, caring, kind-hearted, and can be very loving to a special someone. I want to picnic by the river, watch the sunset, cook together, sip wine by firelight, dance in the moonlight, make s'mores over a campfire. I will play guitar and sing a favorite song, cuddle during a thunderstorm, give caring caresses and heartfelt, passionate kisses.

I am easy-going and looking for someone who has similar traits to develop a strong connection and build empathy. So if you also are fun to be with, attractive, and feel we have a lot in common, message me...unless you also believe you are Joan of Arc, see leprechauns wandering around your house, or have been abducted by aliens more than once! Hey...a guy needs to have his standards! haha

BTW, my profile is 100% written by me and is my honest description of myself and who I am seeking. However, quantities of me are limited, so act now! And if you send a message before midnight tonight, you will receive a cool-sounding, although totally useless. kitchen gadget absolutely free! (Other than the exorbitant "shipping and handling" charges you are billed, of course.)
What I’m doing with my life
Now that my marriage is toast, I'm actually looking forward to dating again. Sounds exciting and fun!
I’m really good at
Music... guitar, but especially drums. Also singing, having a great time, being fun, and making love.
The first things people usually notice about me
Tall and handsome (so I'm told).
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Illusions (Richard Bach), Conversations with God (Neale Donald Walsh)
The six things I could never do without
music, movies, family, friends, lover, intimacy (hey, at least I'm honest!)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Where is that beautiful woman who I can fall for and sees that I'm a pretty good catch.
On a typical Friday night I am
Travelling, attending some event in one of my social groups, or wondering why I'm not with a lovely, fun, interesting woman!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'd love to try tantric sex.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 40–52
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
You are attractive, healthy, interesting, have similar interests, are fun, like affection (holding hands, cuddling, etc.), find me attractive, like to travel and try new things.