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bethers1983

30 F Chicago, IL

I’m looking for

  • Straight guys only
  • Ages 24–35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Aug 14
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Diet
Smokes
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Judaism, but not too serious about it
Sign
Libra
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Art / Music / Writing
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), French (Okay), Yiddish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I've lived in 6 different cities/towns covering 2 countries and 2 hemispheres. Currently im in a place in my life where I make a living so i can travel to more places to experience and just enjoy life to the fullest.

I hate drama. I'm all about the laid back, take life as it comes, in the moment type of thing.

I'm a very open minded person in all aspects of my life and I love trying new things all the time. My goal this summer is to try to attend all the events that chicago has to offer in the summertime. Also, i've never officially done all the touristy stuff in this city either, so thats on my list of things to do as well.

Ideally im looking for a partner in crime but id settle for someone to have a good time with for right now with too. There is so much to do in this incredible city and i've barely scratched the surface so i would love nothing more than to find someone who wants to explore this city with me.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I work in the performing and fashion industries. I sing and act and make my income in retail.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
anything I set my mind to
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
my eyes and my boobs
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
books: harry potter, alice in wonderland/through the looking glass, the entire oz series, anything by gregory maguire, anything by ernest hemingway, the great gatsby, the dark materials series, harold pinter, tony kushner, and mostly anything having to do with fairy tales

movies: musicals, fantasy, historical movies

food: do you want to know my favorite foods that i'm allowed to eat or my favorite foods that I wish I could still eat (im not on a strict diet by choice. im on a strict diet because i have to be to stay healthy, i have celiac)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
in no particular order:
phone
friends
family
music
theatre
men
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
where my next adventure will be
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
there's nothing typical about my schedule. Spontaneity is the way to go!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I suck at being the first one to make first contact on here. So if I just send you a hey hows it going message, I'm interested in what I read in your profile, I just have no clue what to say without sounding completely corny lol.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
--you are old enough to drink
--you aren't old enough to be my parent
--you don't still live with your parents
--you don't have an ex girfriend/fiance/wife still in your life that you could potentially get back together with

DONT message me if you have already messaged me multiple times before and i have not responded. Theres probably a reason i didn't respond then, so i probably won't respond now.