bethers1983
32 Chicago, IL
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My self-summary
I've lived in 6 different cities/towns covering 2 countries and 2 hemispheres. Currently im in a place in my life where I make a living so i can travel to more places to experience and just enjoy life to the fullest.

I hate drama. I'm all about the laid back, take life as it comes, in the moment type of thing.

I'm a very open minded person in all aspects of my life and I love trying new things all the time. My goal this summer is to try to attend all the events that chicago has to offer in the summertime. Also, i've never officially done all the touristy stuff in this city either, so thats on my list of things to do as well.

Ideally im looking for a partner in crime but id settle for someone to have a good time with for right now with too. There is so much to do in this incredible city and i've barely scratched the surface so i would love nothing more than to find someone who wants to explore this city with me.
What I’m doing with my life
I work in the performing and fashion industries. I sing and act and make my income in retail.
I’m really good at
anything I set my mind to
The first things people usually notice about me
my eyes and my boobs
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
books: harry potter, alice in wonderland/through the looking glass, the entire oz series, anything by gregory maguire, anything by ernest hemingway, the great gatsby, the dark materials series, harold pinter, tony kushner, and mostly anything having to do with fairy tales

movies: musicals, fantasy, historical movies

food: do you want to know my favorite foods that i'm allowed to eat or my favorite foods that I wish I could still eat (im not on a strict diet by choice. im on a strict diet because i have to be to stay healthy, i have celiac)
The six things I could never do without
in no particular order:
phone
friends
family
music
theatre
men
I spend a lot of time thinking about
where my next adventure will be
On a typical Friday night I am
there's nothing typical about my schedule. Spontaneity is the way to go!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I suck at being the first one to make first contact on here. So if I just send you a hey hows it going message, I'm interested in what I read in your profile, I just have no clue what to say without sounding completely corny lol.
You should message me if
--you are old enough to drink
--you aren't old enough to be my parent
--you don't still live with your parents
--you don't have an ex girfriend/fiance/wife still in your life that you could potentially get back together with

DONT message me if you have already messaged me multiple times before and i have not responded. Theres probably a reason i didn't respond then, so i probably won't respond now.
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