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bethness12

37 / F / straight / Single

El Centro, California

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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 9" (1.75m).
Body Type
Average
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners, Long-distance penpals
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Virgo and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from two-year college
Job
Law / Legal Services
Income
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Owns dogs and Owns cats
Languages
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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I am amazon, undefeatable, and happy.

My Self-Summary

If it's to be, it's up to me. I'm a handful of trouble. I like the MMA, boxing, weight-lifting trying new things, fishing, I can play pool, I like to read. I grew up with an ax in one hand and a rototiller in the other. But don't read that wrong. I'm a 5'9" Blue Eyed charmer with high-heels and long hair. I think I'm witty and funny. (You might decide otherwise!) I work hard and play hard. I'm honest and earnest and I love people. I'll talk to almost anyone. I enjoy drinking, but that drink can be coffee, it doesn't matter. Life, love, laughter. I am a total movie buff. Excuses are a moot point. You do, or you don't. That's it. I love my little Schnauzer, Mitzi. That dog's a total nutcase. Adorable, lovable and sassy! I believe you treat your man like a King and you will be his Queen. I think it's important for a guy to have his night out with the boys; same for us girls. I think men are the head of the household (I'm old fashioned). I also believe in all those things a normal guy wants a girl to believe in. If you want to know what that is, email me or take a guess. I just want to be with my best friend forever and show him, near daily, how important that is to me. Practice, practice, practice. I hope you like chocolate. I keep fit, and keep my carbs low, because I want my wine and chocolate sometimes. I like fish, oysters, seafood. Actually, I like most food. I have discovered a new love - exercise. I like to work out hard. I would hope that I would meet people, or someone, who would work out with me.

What I’m doing with my life

Starting over. I am in a new life in a new state with my Nana, (my grandmother) and we take care of each other. I am with my twin, 50 years older. She is a joy and I love picking on her.
I'm finding me again, but in a warmer state. I'm picking up old interests again and moving forward. If I'm starting over slower and later than others, then so be it. It is what it is, whatever shall be shall be.
I have just finished my Paralegal Associates. I will continue on for my BA in English. I had some things hold me up, but I'm tough and determined. I'll get there.

I’m really good at

being a singing diva in the shower!
I am good at working hard, helping others, making things happen. I compromise and work through difficult situations. I accept others. (or I try)
I make homemade chocolate pudding, french silk pie, strong coffee and great salmon.
I will ask questions to understand what you are saying. This is a talent to me because sometimes we let it go.

The first things people usually notice about me

I give a great first impression. It's when you get to know me that I'm in trouble (just kidding).
I have a bright and cheery personality and I like to laugh.
I have a flirtatious nature and a bit of a "naughty" side. It shows right through, I'm afraid.
My eyes, I think.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

I'm a "girl power chick flick" kinda girl. I loved the Buffy series, The Long Kiss Goodnight, Million Dollar Baby, Under the Tuscan Sun, but I do have a wide variety of tastes, but NO horror like House of a 1000 Corpes. I can't do that kind of cruelty. I love to read, but have been studying for my paralegal certificate and that takes up my book time.
My fun movies are usually with Tim Allen(GalaxyQuest and The Santa Claus), I love good action flicks and I also enjoy discussing the components of a movie, like plot and characterization. I like Samuel Jackson, Diane Lane, Diane Keaton and Sandra Bullock. I enjoy Mark Wahlberg and James Bond movies.

The six things I could never do without

1. Chocolate (of course)
2. High heels
3. Exercise
4. Laughter
5. Love
6. Family
7. My Schauzer
8. Oysters! (I love seafood)
9. God - I like religion, it's like a security blanket.
I could go on and on...

I spend a lot of time thinking about

My future. All the things I want to accomplish each day. A productive day is a good day. Can I have more hours in the day?

Other things. You figure that one out.

On a typical Friday night I am

Studying. I'm new to El Centro, from Portland, Oregon, so I don't know too many people and sometimes I'll just sit with my Nana and a glass of wine in between review manual chapters.
Monday nights, however, I am in the Imperial Valley Choir. I get to be part of something great.
However, on this Friday night, I'd like to either go out to the local high school football game for something different, or find someone to go have a drink with. Should be easy enough.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

Last year I worked toward the 2009 Fitness Open. I lost 50 pounds and several dress sizes. I didn't make it, but the weight stayed off. If you find the weight, keep it. I don't want it back! The rush from exercising is really amazing.

You should message me if

You are interested in friends, dating, fun, getting to know me. I like life. I like being in control of me, live and let live. I love to talk. I'm always interested in good conversation.