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betsythemuffin

27 F Silver Spring, MD

My Details

Last Online
Dec 21, 2013
Orientation
Bisexual
Ethnicity
Height
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body Type
Rather not say
Diet
Mostly vegetarian
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Sign
Sagittarius, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Job
Technology
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t want kids
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
I'm an introvert who likes people: if you break through my reserve, I'm joyful and perky and (apparently) adorable. I can be an intellectual snob but try not to let that turn into arrogance. I love the arts and sciences in all their forms, and though I'm frequently cynical I remain unjaded.

I am reserved, joyful, and quirky.

I am also polyamorous. I believe very strongly that relationships should take the shapes they best fit, and am comfortable with friends-with-benefits deals, romantic relationships, and things that occupy some liminal space in between. The one limiting parameter? No friendship -> no comfort level -> no sexy times: I am not really looking for one-offs.
What I’m doing with my life
I make websites. I'm currently working at a medical-device company on software that helps diabetics organize their day to day progress and communicate with their doctors. I started out in the nonprofit world, and it's been weird leaving that, but I'm glad that I still get to work for an organization with obvious Higher Moral Purpose.
I’m really good at
book recommendations and random acts of kindness
The first things people usually notice about me
My speech pattern of quiet-quiet-quiet-BABBLEBABBLEBABBLE-quiet. My frequent shit-eating grin. My ability to use "FUBAR" and "Brechtian" in the same sentence.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I judge people who think taste-in-media is either a dealbreaker or proof of compatibility.

You'll get a better idea of my tastes by asking me what I'm reading now, and what I think of it.
I’m looking for
  • Guys and girls who like bi girls
  • Ages 19–34
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You want someone to go on adventures with, but also someone who can sit and talk and have tea with you while she crochets/draws badly/screws around on her laptop.