I'm a decent, considerate, artsy, intelligent guy, looking for someone with whom to have fun, share love and support, and hopefully create a family.
I enjoy being in nature, playing non-violent sports like tennis, and I appreciate fine cuisine, music, and art.
Over the years people have said (and I agree) I'm funny/clever/interesting/complex, and have a bit of an edge. Certainly more Jon Stewart/Ed Norton than Vin Diesel or other studs whose names don't come to mind at the moment.
I'm (too) honest, and sometimes have to remind myself to engage my filters, but I also need honesty in relationships.
I've been told that in person I look better than my photos (I was flattered, but not sure I believed it). The photos are from late 2011, so in-person I look 2 years older and 3-D. Also, I rarely wear a suit. There's a recent photo of me giving the finger -- my friends voted I should make that my primary photo, but I don't want to flip off everyone on this site.
Other stuff: I own and play musical instruments. Don't have cable tv, but recently bought an iPad. I sometimes watch Thursday night TV and PBS documentaries. I still read books occasionally, and finish most of them eventually.
My agnosticism and buddhist leanings belie my Jewish upbringing. I'm the child of a Holocaust survivor. I sometimes meditate at a Buddhist temple. NOT religious.
I have loved and been loved, yet sometimes love is not enough to make a relationship work. I am seeking the relationship that works.
One more thing...I haven't yet perfected a method of discerning compatible "chemistry" by reading anyone's self-description or analyzing a series of photos. Until then, meeting in person and spending some time together seems to be the best way to figure things out. (In other words, if we find each other attractive and interesting, please let's make a date.) I welcome any feedback.