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24 Somerville, MA Other, Gender Nonconforming

Other, Gender Nonconforming

I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 21–40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 6:21am
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body type
Full figured
Mostly vegan
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Poorly), Hebrew (Poorly), French (Poorly), Icelandic (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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sad baby cactus

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What I’m doing with my life
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Grumpy barista. Performance art. Making music. Playing video games for $$. Drawing comics. Lots of sleep. Crying.
I’m really good at
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Saying stupid things. Printmaking. Making mix tapes. Books. Being nervous. Singing. Playing video games. Worrying. Cooking. Refreshing pages. Petting animals. Talking too much.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I am not Thurston Moore tall.
I have big thighs and big glasses and green hair. There's a lot of rings on my face. After that it's probably my really sick sneakers.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Reading a lot of Kafka lately due to infatuation. I will read whatever you want me to read as long as you recommend it once and only once.

I've been re-watching "Take This Waltz" a lot. The colours are really nice. My favourite movie is Ferris Bueller's Day Off. Sometimes it's There Will Be Blood, though.

My favourite band is The Music Tapes. But mostly I listen to Iron Lung and Frankie Cosmos and Black Flag and Krill to feel ok to and from work.

I mostly eat bagels because I don't have to pay for them at work. Sometimes I bring lunch. I like cooking things for other people though.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
6 puppies
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
whether or not Kafka was too conventionally beautiful for me to have a crush on him.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
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The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm in love with Mark Twain.
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