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45 M San Francisco, CA

I’m looking for

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  • Ages 30–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Oct 20
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Virgo, and it’s fun to think about
Working on masters program
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has dogs
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
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And something ignited in my soul,
fever or unremembered wings,
and I went my own way
deciphering that burning fire...

- pablo neruda

January 2014 - I arrived a bit early for my first ever client and decided to take in some conscious breaths at the nearby park. Feeling embodied in the moment, I gingerly ventured towards the counseling center. En route, I passed a young boy (5 years old) and his father. We smiled and said hello. Just as I passed, the little boy turned around and said, "what do you do?" Caught a bit off guard by such an unexpected and direct question, I paused for a moment, turned inwards, and reflected. And for the first time in my life I said, "I am a therapist." The words deeply resonated - a 'truth' had been spoken. I landed into a profound inner calm that enveloped my being as I walked into the center with head held high and heart radiating. Ahhhhh, moments like these reinforce the feeling that I do not walk this path alone and in fact am being guided and nurtured along the way.

I am a relaxed fun-loving intelligent man who tries not to take myself or life too seriously. Although ultimately up for anything, i definitely prefer situations that cultivate intimacy (smaller groups, dinner parties, anything outdoors related). I have an active mind and open heart that love to engage with people and discover the world. yoga and meditation nurture my body/spirit and help maintain balance in my life. i am a true gentlemen through and through and am looking for a woman who appreciates this rare quality - yes, chivalry is not dead! :) witty remarks and laughter are always with me (huge bonus points if you can play right along). I'm a basketball fan (long time warriors season ticket holder) and play competitive tennis. Photography and traveling (40 countries and counting) are my passions for stimulating creativity and a sense of adventure. my dog rio is my favorite. to know him is to know me.
What I’m doing with my life
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A couple of years ago i did the unthinkable, leaving my wall street career in pursuit of something more personally meaningful. I've been attending grad school for the past two years to get a masters in psychology and just started seeing clients in January. Ah, this is it. I feel connected to my purpose and am truly happy.
I’m really good at
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traveling, compassionate listener, making people laugh, tennis, photography, loving my dog rio, connecting with people...
The first things people usually notice about me
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my smile, energy, sincerity, funny, easy to get along with....
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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The Alchemist, In the Lap of the Buddha, Radical Acceptance. David Whyte. Music: I love most all types. Really depends on my mood. Movies: the coen brothers' movies, memento, angel heart, royal tenenbaums. Food: love Indian and Thai curries.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
traveling, friends, camera, my dog rio, connecting to spirit, authenticity
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
how i might be able to help others. how to make things better: processes, institutions, my own stuff. how incredibly blessed this life i have been given....and of course, stupid sh*t :)
You should message me if
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Although I am perfectly content with my life as is, I’m open to meeting a woman who resonates with authenticity, vulnerability, a sense of adventure, and a childlike curiosity. Someone committed to her own path yet also ultimately desirous of sharing this journey, deeply and intimately with another. Looking forward to meeting you….