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31 / M / Straight / Single

San Francisco, California

His Details

Last Online
Online now!
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 2″ (1.88m).
Body Type
Thin
Diet
Mostly vegetarian
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Buddhism but not too serious about it
Sign
Libra and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Executive / Management
Income
$80,000–$100,000
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I'm the guy who holds the door open extra long for people when they're fumbling with their groceries, then ends up spilling my coffee in the process. The same guy who picks up your missed basketball shot at the trash can with your coconut water box and still smiles approvingly at your attempt. Next time sweets. The one who listens to his music so loud on the subway people ask... "What is that you're listening to?" and I reply "Something new. Would you like this right headphone for you?" I probably forgot your brother's birthday, but I remembered to pick up candles for the big storm headed our way. I wear sunglasses too much, and sunscreen not enough. I've lost touch with you, but all I want is a new hair do.

And although I may have fixed the air conditioning, I'm still trying to repair the heat.
What I’m doing with my life
Part time apparel designer and menswear clothing brand owner, part time sunglasses company owner, part time web/interactive user experience creator, part time musician, part time DJ, part time record label operator, part time woodworking assistant, part time business/brand consultant, part time journalist, part time ebay store operator.

A renaissance man sits no where in particular.
I’m really good at
making anyone feel like we've known each other for eons.
The first things people usually notice about me
my innate ability to turn anything negative to a positive.

Solutions not problems.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Everything created has, or is, appreciated by someone, somewhere.

I try not to have favorites, but here's some lists of currents:

Books:
Cloud Atlas - David Mitchell
Fundamentals of Electrical Engineering - Giorgio Rizzoni

Periodicals:
Wired
Interior Design Magazine
Crap Hound
INC
Entrepreneur
Lots of Apparel Brand Catalogs (Particularly Japanese Brands)
Professional Web Design
National Geographic
Men's Health
Popular Science

Movies:
Objectified
Urbanized
Anything on History or Discovery

Shows:
We're going.

Music:
Do Make Say Think
Dosh
Explosions in the Sky
Caribou
Girls Names
Peaking Lights
Pavement
Magic Man
Tame Impala
El Ten Eleven
Black Moth Super Rainbow
Youth Lagoon
Mercury Program
Hotels
Film School
Wild Nothing
Real Estate
Botany
Generationals
Beach House
Craft Spells
Big Deal
Foreign Fields
Tearjerker
James Brown
Al Green
Otis Redding
Sam Cooke
Marvin Gaye
Miles Davis
Delfonics
Spinners
Isaac Hayes
Neil Young
Hawkwind
I could go on forever...

Food:
I seriously eat at least one slice of pizza a day. Same with a cup of coffee. After that it's open game... Indian, Mexican, and Japanese seem to be the go to lately. Maybe a little Greek in there? Perhaps some Thai.
The six things I could never do without
How about six things that we could all do without.

Negativity.
Hatred.
Bias.
Prejudice.
Stereotypes.
Ego.
On a typical Friday night I am
shredding a tidal wave of whiskey on a surfboard made of don't care.

Just kidding, but for real?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I want to own an island and zip line naked from the front door of my Swiss Family Robinson style tree-house into the ocean every morning to take a bath. Then lay on the sand while my body dries in the sun's rays while drinking out of a coconut. Wash, Rinse, Repeat.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 25–35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, activity partners, casual sex
You should message me if
Please don't click that star rating thing above saying I'm a 4-star or 5-star... It's like poking me.

I already know I'm a shining star, my school teachers, Earth Wind and Fire, and Mos Def told me already.

All it does is convey you aren't able to initiate conversation. Or maybe you're just slightly interested, or lazy, or introverted...

Would you poke me if we were in line at the market instead of say hello?

Didn't think you would, so just shoot me a message me already...