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35 Rome, NY Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 30–40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 3:36pm
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Atheism, and laughing about it
Sagittarius, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Rather not say
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
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I've always been a bit shy, which probably helped lead me into a career in computers.

I tend to spend my free time off vising with family, or getting caught up with whatever fine television programming my TiVo has found for me over the course of the week.

Beyond that, I've got a house. So, now I'm doing homeownery things. Such as lawn mowing and snow removing.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
At the moment I work as a software engineer for a local company. Outside of all that I don't really have that much going on. I tend to pick up home / car related projects as I think of them or as they make themselves known to me (Damn you freezing pipes!). There's occasional travel for work, but mostly I'm lounging around my house, out to visit family, or off on a scenic drive.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Generally speaking, computers and technology are my main area of expertise. I also really enjoy working on my car, even if a third of the time I really have no idea what I'm doing. I've got lots of tools accumulated and I know how to read a manual, so things eventually work out. In addition, I seem to have acquired all manner of virtually pointless knowledge over the years, so ask me an obscure question and I might have an obscure answer for you.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I've been told that I have pretty eyes. Take a look at the pictures and decide for yourself.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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A) The Lord of the Rings trilogy (though its been a long time since I've read it in its entirety), The Princess Bride, any collections of Steve Martin's short stories or essays (very very entertaining, and his autobiography is quite interesting too)

B) The Princess Bride, The Third Man, Lawrence of Arabia, The Usual Suspects, and since there's no place for TV shows I'm going to mention: Pushing Daisies, Now and Again, 30 Rock, the Venture Bros., and Wonderfalls

C) I have no particular musical tastes, which leaves this one all over the board. Anything from Spinal Tap mock metal to They Might be Giants to old Smothers Brothers comedy recordings. Just about any style is ok by me.

D) A nicely grilled steak, pasta, chocolate pie (for which I'm able to produce a passable specimen)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Outside of the basic necessities to sustain human life, not much really. However, here are six things that it would suck to be without:

Internet Access

Clothes (what can I say, it gets cold here in the winter)


Friends and Family

Good Food

A Job (or an interesting hobby to pass the time)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
One of two things depending on my mood. Either I'm trying to accomplish something, or I'm trying to improve my procrastination techniques.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Lounging around my house. Other times you might find me visiting family or providing tech support for those people in my life who have made computers their mortal enemies.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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This is the internet, nothing here is private...
As a neophyte at this whole dating thing, I feel a bit like the dog chasing the car. If I actually manage to catch one, I have no idea what to do with it.
You should message me if
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You want to know more about me, want me to know more about you, or are just plain curious about me. I'm pretty much an open book, as long as you're willing to ask the questions. Just messaging me because you think I'm cute is fine too ;-)