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bgouda

32 / M / gay / Single

New York, New York

The Skinny

Last Online
Join Date
Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 7" (1.70m).
Body Type
A little extra
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
—
Sign
Leo but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Political / Government
Income
—
Kids
—
Pets
Owns dogs and Likes cats
Languages
English

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I am witty, cantankerous, and fairly shy..

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My Self-Summary

I spend most of my time divided between school and work, my dog, and my books. I am the youngest of six kids, my parents are still married, and I like the outdoors (camping-rock climbing). I am a budding photographer, and a huge fan of all things geeky. I like to talk about politics and good books. My dog's name is Gandalf and I still sleep on Star Wars sheets. My ideal first date is a stroll through the American Museum of Natural History.

I like boys and men, around my age and educated (or getting there). It would be really great if someone could teach me how to DANCE! Every time I try I feel like a complete idiot.

What I’m doing with my life

Just quit my job of eight years so I can pursue a career in public service. Currently, I am working on getting my EMT, but I hope to join the NYPD by this August.

I’m really good at

baking cookies and brownies

The first things people usually notice about me

Not a Madonna fan! Gay guys always seem to be shocked by this. Sorry boys. I am all gay, but I don't know the first thing about dancing with my shirt off, or Britney, or Kylie, or pretty much anything pop.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

MUSIC: Bob Dylan Radiohead Beatles Danny Elfman Stevie Wonder Bluegrass The Cure Belle and Sebastian Sufjan Stevens Dolly Parton Doc Watson harry belafonte dolly parton

FILM: Goonies The Dark Crystal Muppet Movie The Hustler The Sting On the Waterfront Star Wars Full Metal Jacket The Shining Iron Giant Blade Runner Rushmore Old School The Big Lebowski Casablanca Brick Pans Labyrinth

BOOKS: Walt Whitman's Memoranda of the Civil War Tom Sawyer The Plague Lord of the Rings I, Claudius Faggots A River Runs Through It Desert Solitaire Encounters with the Archdruid Galileo's Daughter Stealing God's Thunder Collapse Giovanni's Room

I spend a lot of time thinking about

my future

On a typical Friday night I am

There are no typical Fridays for me, because until recently I always worked. On my days off however, I like to keep my Playstation and Wii in good use. Pretty much anything I can do with my dog by my side makes me happy. As I said before, I love going to the Museum of Natural History. Spontaneous activities through the city and roller coasters always a good idea.

You should message me if

- You like bluegrass music or

- You don't use words like "fierce" and "hot" to describe things. Or

- You just want to

- Or.. if you want to see me naked.

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