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bgouda

35 / M / Gay / Single

New York, New York

His Details

Last Online
Dec 25, 2011
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 7″ (1.70m).
Body Type
A little extra
Diet
Strictly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Sign
Leo but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Hospitality / Travel
Income
Offspring
Pets
Has dogs and has cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
As for being with a person - well - I should be able to laugh over cooking, laugh during sex, and read together in perfect quiet. I like boys and men, around my age and educated (or getting there). It would be really great if someone could teach me how to DANCE! Every time I try I feel like a complete idiot.

I spend most of my time divided between school and work, my dog, and my books. I am the youngest of six kids, my parents are still married, and I like the outdoors (camping-rock climbing). I am a budding photographer, and a huge fan of all things geeky. My ideal first date is a stroll through the American Museum of Natural History.

I am fairly shy, but cantankerous.

I'm a bartender / EMT / photographer. Single. Recycler. Moderately clean. Baker.

Anti: television, pop culture, gay obsession/deifying of Madonna.

Pro: movies, video games, literature, walking barefoot. If I had my way, I would often sleep all day and go out all night.

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What I’m doing with my life
Working on opening up a bar of my own. I am also tending bar at the River Cafe in Brooklyn, stop by if you can afford it, or you can visit me at SEA in Williamsberg and the Meatpacking District.

Check out my blog:
diamondsdelirium.blogspot.com

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I’m really good at
baking cookies and brownies

I do not meet people in clubs very well, but, your mother will like me.

Relating to animals and adolescents

Organic gardening

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The first things people usually notice about me
The people in my life that like me the most, all say that their first impression of me was NOT that good.

Oops.

Maybe I shouldn't have lied about my age...

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Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food

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The six things I could never do without
- Laughter, or making others laugh
- Nature, animals, wilderness, pets - all kind of fit into one
- Politics
- Astronomy
- Superhero Movies, sci-fi movies (sci-fi books don't interest me so much)
- Video games

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I spend a lot of time thinking about
my future, my next meal, and how hot it would be to date a scientist

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On a typical Friday night I am
On my days off, anything I can do with my dog by my side makes me happy. Spontaneous activities through the city and roller coasters are always a good idea. Playstation.

I would rather sit in an old dive, an old diner, an old dump, and talk over bad food than pump and bump in a gym or a club.

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The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I don't like spending money needlessly, I do like being lost on purpose, improbable adventures in search of quixotic city details and borrowed sentiments. I like to keep my life simple. I don't watch TV, but I LURV the Vampire Diaries. I don't like to wear a watch or carry my cell phone on me.

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I’m looking for
  • Gay guys only
  • Ages 21-40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, activity partners
You should message me if
- You like bluegrass music or

- You don't use words like "fierce" and "waddup" and "sup". Or

- you can relate to SOMETHING I said here.

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