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bgouda

32 / M / gay / Single

New York, New York

The Skinny

Last Online
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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 7" (1.70m).
Body Type
A little extra
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Leo but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Political / Government
Income
Kids
Pets
Owns dogs and Likes cats
Languages
English

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I am witty, cantankerous, and fairly shy..

My Self-Summary

I spend most of my time divided between school and work, my dog, and my books. I am the youngest of six kids, my parents are still married, and I like the outdoors (camping-rock climbing). I am a budding photographer, and a huge fan of all things geeky. I like to talk about politics and good books. My dog's name is Gandalf and I still sleep on Star Wars sheets. My ideal first date is a stroll through the American Museum of Natural History.

I like boys and men, around my age and educated (or getting there). It would be really great if someone could teach me how to DANCE! Every time I try I feel like a complete idiot.

What I’m doing with my life

Just quit my job of eight years so I can pursue a career in public service. Currently, I am working on getting my EMT, but I hope to join the NYPD by this August.

I’m really good at

baking cookies and brownies

The first things people usually notice about me

Not a Madonna fan! Gay guys always seem to be shocked by this. Sorry boys. I am all gay, but I don't know the first thing about dancing with my shirt off, or Britney, or Kylie, or pretty much anything pop.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

I spend a lot of time thinking about

my future

On a typical Friday night I am

There are no typical Fridays for me, because until recently I always worked. On my days off however, I like to keep my Playstation and Wii in good use. Pretty much anything I can do with my dog by my side makes me happy. As I said before, I love going to the Museum of Natural History. Spontaneous activities through the city and roller coasters always a good idea.

You should message me if

- You like bluegrass music or

- You don't use words like "fierce" and "hot" to describe things. Or

- You just want to

- Or.. if you want to see me naked.