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34 Augusta, GA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 24–36
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
When drinking
Virgo, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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Hi I'm Barclay,

I'm a jeans and t-shirt kinda guy, but I do enjoy my button up collard shirts. Grilling out and bonfires with friends are my idea of great night out. I was born and raised here in Augusta but I have only a slight southern draw. My character is precise, refined, and I am a lover of cleanliness(although my house seem to be in a state of perpetual chaos), hygiene and order. I am witty and enjoy self depreciating humor(helps keep my ego in check). Some may call me a pessimist but I think that is just a negative way of looking at it. I am persistent. I view failure as a stair step and never a stopping point. I'm not a glass is half full or half empty kind of person, I'm more interested in finding out if I can get some ice and, more importantly, who drank my water without asking. My health is important to me, I try exercise 5 to 6 times a week. I'm usually pretty observant, shrewd, critical, and patient, accept for when I'm not. I am undemonstrative due to a coolness in my nature(I have no idea what this means). I'm very selective about those with whom I choose to associate. Character, class and loyalty are very important to me. I do keep a close circle of friends most of whom I have know almost all my life. Ok, about my hair, and beard, it's a comfort thing. I cut my hair short once or twice a year, and it never gets longer than what you see in the pictures. My beard is shaved once or twice a month. Shaving irritates my face and its very uncomfortable, so I grow a beard and keep it trimmed. I'm no hippy, but I am a little vain, I mean I'm at least a 6 out of 10 in the looks department. I think I'm actually higher than that but I'm biased. But in all seriousness, I'm just a nice guy looking for a nice girl. On the political front I define myself as a conservative libertarian. Now as far as my religion, here is how I see it. Being spiritual is easy because there are no rules you have to follow. Being religious is exhausting because you're so caught up in following the rules you lose sight of there purpose. Having faith allows you to listening to you're conscience. I have faith. I am not perfect and I am not worried about it.

The reason I am on this site is because my job takes me all across the country unfortunately, this makes dating a bit tough given that I am home for only a couple weeks ever few months. So, here I am putting my ego on the chopping block and hoping to meet a nice lady to spend time with when I come home. As far as what I am looking for in that lady, she should be able to be sarcastic and playful. She must also have class, but able to sling a well placed four letter word without a second thought. She should be intelligent and curious. Comfortable in Jean and in dresses. And I don't know what else but I will know it if I find her.

This I got from one those tests about what I'm looking for, but I liked what it said so...
Someone who doesn't want or need to rely on me for economic security but rather comes to the relationship with existing resources.
Someone who's grounded and has a strong sense of identity, purpose and independence that will reflect well on me.
Someone who doesn't make me feel like an underachiever, but rather who'll see me as an equal and collaborator and as such will consult with me on major decisions and actions and will be supportive as I focus on my own personal and professional goals.
Someone who's ready and able to give me freedom and support for my personal or professional goals.
Someone who's generally calm and content but who can also show spontaneity and go on occasional adventures that you set when circumstances permit.
Someone who cares about her appearance, health and fitness for me, but who isn't high maintenance.
Someone who subscribes to the philosophy that affection is often best expressed physically, but who's somewhat reserved in public and prefers to keep her sexuality behind closed doors.
Someone who'll garner approval from my friends and family.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I recently got back from Afghanistan after about a two-year deployment as a DOD contractor. I am currently working for a company here in Augusta and just enjoying a being back in the civilized world.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Debate. I love a good argument and no I don't mean the yelling screaming kind I mean the one where each party understand the the only person that can change your mind is you, all I can do is give you things to think about.

Computers duh.

Cooking....well burning meat.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Is my glorious hair. No, just kidding. I really don't know, I've never met me for the first time.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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My favorite book right now is The Dark Tower I: The Gunslinger. Movies well that is just too much to get into. I ran a video store in college if that tells you anything. Show, well Breaking Bad, Hell on Wheels, Longmire, True Blood (guilty pleasure), Red Eye, Battlestar Gallactica, Doctor Who and yes I still watch some cartoons and I won't be ashamed of that dammit. Music I am a metal fan but I do enjoy classical blue grass and rock in general. As far as food, well, I think it would be best if I stated the foods I don't like namely vegetables. They are evil! Well most of them at any rate.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My Faith
My Country
My Family/Friends
My Computer
My Glasses/Contacts......seriously, I am pretty much blind without them.
My ???oxygen? I don't know I mean after all that what else do you need?
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Right now work but hopefully that will change when I meet you.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Flying home or to some other secret location.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Secret, Secret!
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You find me the least bit interesting or you have something interesting to say. Or if you're just cute and wanna say hi... yeah, I'm good with that.