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49 F San Mateo, CA

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 2:25pm
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Libra, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from Ph.D program
Science / Engineering
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has a kid, but doesn’t want more
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), German (Okay), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I've been off-line for a while - one thing that's new in the meantime: I'm learning how to play guitar and love it!

I like to think of this site as a cool social tool to run into people and don't like to take the profile aspect of it too seriously. There are some wonderful people in my life now that I would not likely have otherwise met and that's what makes it all fun :-)

So here are some thoughts that come to mind - perhaps they'll provide some insight to my style and what I enjoy...there are many aspects that are well rooted like my values and love of life.....and there are other aspects that evolve as I explore and grow.

I like to dive into life - and I like to sit back and observe. I find myself smiling a lot - and I love to laugh. Sometimes something beautiful can bring me to tears and sometimes something somber can generate a feeling of deep serenity and joy.

I consider myself open-minded and enjoy the new things I discover when I (or others!) challenge my perspective.

I'm raising an amazing daughter who always makes me smile. We grow, laugh, and learn together. She's almost 12 yrs old and full of spirit and wisdom. There is so much we can learn from children.

Relationships are central to my life. I am privileged to enjoy wonderful family, friends, and colleagues. I enjoy intimate connections and do my best to always be present and honest with people in my life (and everyone I encounter). I'm easily taken by life - in all its richness - and I love sharing and musing over these experiences. Life is a wonderful journey - I've come to realize that none of us walk this journey alone (though it may feel like it at times) - and there are those magical times when someone special walks along with us providing mutual support and having fun with it all!

I enjoy riding my bike! I'm fearless on a bike and love to find that perfect line down a windy forested road!

I enjoy taking early morning walks; I'm inspired by nature and people. I enjoy bold red wines, exquisite chocolate, a perfect latte (working on latte art as part of my morning ritual - not as easy as it looks!) and wholesome cuisine. I enjoy rich textures and warm wool slippers, stimulating conversation, reading, getting together with friends, opposing perspectives, and finding humor in everything (especially myself!) ...and quiet time.
What I’m doing with my life
Raising a beautiful and spirited daughter and being the best person I can be. I'm a scientist by training and work as a project manager in drug development. I've followed my passions to carve out a path that is highly fulfilling - I feel incredibly fortunate for the opportunities I've had.

Looking forward I want to expand my appreciation of the arts and travel more - I've always enjoyed music, shows, and artwork and now I'm wanting to experience it all at a deeper level. There is plenty of opportunity here in SF - and there's a whole world to explore as well!
I’m really good at
caring for people, laughing, thinking outside the box, being open and honest, and communicating....and riding my bike fast down hill!
The first things people usually notice about me
My openness. My willingness to just jump in.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: I love to read. Some favorites are The Alchemist and all of Paulo Coelho's work, The Little Prince, The Solitude of Prime Numbers. I'm fascinated by human nature and enjoy books that speak to the human experience.
Movies: Foreign and Independent Films and Documentaries - basically good stories told well without relying on all the Holiywood special effects, Searching for Sugar Man - A BEAUTIFUL story at so many levels!
Music: My music preferences are broad - it all depends on my mood. I've recently starting playing (with) the guitar and love it - progress is slow and that's part of the fun in some ways.
Food: Wholesome, simple, thoughtfully and creatively prepared. All cuisines. My only true aversions are peas and cooked carrots (scarred from childhood!) and red beets.
The six things I could never do without
people - my daughter top of the list!
the Earth
all that comes from the Earth
all that sustains the Earth
that's about it!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Being present to whatever it is I'm doing! I often find myself composing images from life as I observe it, with or without a camera. I relate well to the scene and beautiful monologue in 'American Beauty' when Ricky Fitts films a plastic bag dancing in the wind;

" It was one of those days when it's a minute away from snowing and there's this electricity in the air, you can almost hear it. Right? And this bag was just dancing with me. Like a little kid begging me to play with it. For fifteen minutes. That's the day I realized that there was this entire life behind things, and this incredibly benevolent force that wanted me to know there was no reason to be afraid, ever. Video's a poor excuse, I know. But it helps me remember... I need to remember... Sometimes there's so much beauty in the world, I feel like I can't take it, and my heart is just going to cave in."
On a typical Friday night I am
Hanging out with my daughter or with a small group of friends, going out for dinner in the city, having deep and playful conversation (not mutually exclusive), heading out for the weekend, enjoying a yoga class or meditation sitting, or enjoying time to myself reading.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 48–57
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
you get a good feeling from reading this ...