bhicular
34 Royal Oak, MI
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My self-summary
If you take the time to enjoy the moments that make up this life, have passion and a positive attitude, are motivation to do well and can still find the humor in everything, then we will make each others already great lives even better.

I am a confident, optimistic, driven, perceptive, and not so easily rattled individual. Rarely at a loss for words, but I listen first. My most valuable asset is my sense of humor.

I'm very open-minded and willing to take risks when needed. I love animals, meaningful conversations, and self reflection.

Also - because people seem to ask a lot - I have no children, no pets, hold down a career, own my own car, have my own place, am not interested in playing games, and I did not come here to find a one-night stand.
What I’m doing with my life
Taking in the moment.
I’m really good at
Listening
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books – I don’t read much fiction, but one of my favorites (which is fiction based on a true events) was” Devil in the White City.” I also liked the Bill Bryson Book “A Short History of Nearly Everything." I also like authors Eckhart Tolle, Dale Carnegie and Robert Kirkman

Movies – The Big Lebowski, Office Space, Requiem for a Dream, Boondock Saints, Anchorman, High-Fidelity, Avengers/Marvel or DC ... I'm a movie lover in general - mostly comedies, but I do like just about any genre.

TV - The Walking Dead, Parks & Rec, Law & Order SVU, GOT, It's Always Sunny in Philadelphia, Louis, Archer, and a lot of random History Channel stuff. I'm not a big 'reality TV' fan.

Music – I like mostly rock/indie/alternative. My favortie band is The Foo Fighters, but some others include bands along the lines of Jimmy Eat World, Muse, Bastille, Florence and the Machine, The Killers, Mumford & Sons, Weezer, Old Show Medicine Crow, AWOLNATION, Lorde, Imagine Dragons, Kings of Leon, . . . I love rock music mostly – but I find all music enjoyable to some extent.

Food – I love pizza, but I prefer a good steak house, sushi bar, or brew pub when I go out to eat. Despite what I just listed, I actually eat pretty healthy on a day-to-day basis.
The six things I could never do without
My family
My friends
Music
Long walks or hikes
Honesty
Traveling
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Presence. Time is often said to be something that can be both given and taken away, but I find this notion insane. Time is a manifestation of mankind’s mind and is simply a tool to be referenced as needed (For example – setting a time to meet someone; setting a timer when cooking; referencing an event in history). There is only now. The past is a collection of memories we may use as lessons to make decisions now, but nothing more. The future is a far off point in which we may plan for now (set goals), but the future itself does not actually exist. Time is a measurement that is no more or less useful than any other form of measurement we use.
On a typical Friday night I am
Dinner with friends, staying in, going to a dive bar, dressing up for a nice evening on the town, going to a concert, staying at home and watching a movie, heading off for a weekend out of town. I don't have a routine for my Friday nights.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I pause after reading my fortune from a fortune cookie and try to decide if it actually applies to some aspect of what's going on in my life at that moment.
You should message me if
- If you are messaging me, you already love who you are; you live life fully and are always striving to be the best version of you; you’re looking for someone supportive that will compliment your already good life.

- The rest is negotiable. (well, you can’t be a blood relative)
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