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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 37-45
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Nov 22
5' 9" (1.75m)
Body Type
Average build
Special Diet
Agnosticism and laughing about it
Doesn’t have kids
English (Fluently), Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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I'm not an "attracted to the person, rather than their gender" bisexual. It's precisely because a man is the man he is, or a woman is the woman that she is, that I am attracted to her and/or to him.

I try to keep in mind how whatever I'm doing will benefit marginalized communities. It can't always be so, I just try to be mindful of how I flex my white male privilege.

Grammar and spelling are important to me. If I ever correct your usage or grammar or syntax, it's not personal.

I make a killer green salad, with just the right mix of textures, flavors, and colors. I can make popcorn with no unpopped kernels left over.

You rode a bicycle all by yourself before the disaster that was the George H.W. Bush (the Elder) administration took office, and still enjoy cycling today. You know what "MST3K" and Cranium are, and enjoy both immensely. You like to ham it up and/or watch someone else do so, even if you prefer not to eat ham.

I tend not to eat very many animals because I lack the nerve to kill and butcher them myself. That's my own decision. You make your own decisions that suit you, and that suits me just fine. Carcass-eaters are welcome.
What I’m doing with my life
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Living, loving, working, and playing. Well, living and working, anyway. I could use some help with numbers 2 and 4. I climb on rocks or at the gym less than I'd like, and have no problem going out-- and coming home-- by myself.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Teaching things that I understand. In fact, teaching something deepens my own understanding of it.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Bright, easy-going nature and my hair.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Just a plain old list, then? Alright:
Venture Bros., MST3K, Hedwig, Spinal Tap, Flight of the Conchords (double count!), a select few jambands (yes, really), Hamlet, pop, funk/soul, jazz, rock-n-roll.

"You had me at, 'lasagna.' "
"I didn't say 'lasagna.' "
"Well...I was thinking it."

I read a story that involved a lizard band that played music which the first-person narrator/protagonist never satisfactorily described. Based on what he did manage to say about it, I imagine I would like "lizard music," as well.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Sun, soil, water, space, air, outdoor physical exertions.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game. things work and how to add extra features into the design.
...multiplication tables and long division.
...the rationale for exceptions to the Hearsay Doctrine.
...the effect of criminal-procedure-themed entertainment on the general perception of criminal justice.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
At home, reading, or out dancing.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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C'mon; if I admit it here, it's not "private," now is it?
You should message me if
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