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38 San Francisco, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 27–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 9:37pm
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body type
Strictly anything
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Libra, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Korean (Fluently), French (Okay), Other (Okay)

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My self-summary
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Trying not to sell myself, though it kind of feels like that's the thing the thing to do here.

I think I'm pretty easy going, though I'm passionate about certain things and there are lots I want to do with my life. Now more than ever, I value relationships and experiences over places and things. Spoken like someone who can't afford much? You might be on to something.

I'm pretty sarcastic in real life, but I'm not looking to fool around. I'm looking to date. And then find a reason to not date anymore. Practical jokes, though, might be part of the dating.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Trying to be there for my family while not being there physically. Doing the same with friends in faraway places.

Surfing most weekends.

Spending time outdoors.

Trying to be sincere about my shortcomings. And working on them.

Managing solar farms.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Judging character.

Looking like jail bait. I do look pretty young.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I look pretty young.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I'm going with restraint.

Book: Mountains Beyond Mountains

Movie: The 400 Blows

TV: The Office, British

Music: Something with a good beat or lots of soul

Food: I'm really good at eating whatever people offer me, but I generally try to find balance.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
(I'm taking the excluding friends, family and survival essentials approach)
- connecting with people
- anticipation
- doing things with my hands
- nicely written words with some depth or humor
- live reggae (this has mostly to do with Mozambique)
- street food
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
That article about how a guy used algorithms to find true love on this site. Not really. But it brought me back after a good hiatus. I'm not savvy enough to use code or math in this way though. I also try to hold on to some notion of romance that math seems to negate. I'd love to be proven wrong on that one.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Sometimes you feel like a nut. Sometimes you don't.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I've shared too much already!
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You're a jive turkey.

You like to walk. Not power walking. Just regular walking.

In all seriousness, if you're a decent human being.