You deem yourself intelligent, creative, mischievous and interested
in all aspects of the world, acting on an overwhelming urge to take
it apart. Or if you just want to have nice, kinky, safe sex with
someone who can spell “consent”. Or if you are looking for someone
to talk to and eat and drink with and play board games.
If you message me, be direct. Tell me what you find interesting
about me and what you are looking for. If you just write “Hi!” or
do not have any meaningful profile text (“You should message me if
… you want to.”), I will most likely ignore you – even if your
profile includes nice (even hot) pictures. This is not
If you message me because you are looking for new friends or
activity partners, please tell me if you play or would like to play
. Me and a friend of mine often only have each
other to play again and she and I would like to play with others. I
am also looking for people who would like to play the board games
If you message me because we are both looking for casual sex
, note that while I
self-identify as an ethical slut, I prefer getting to know people a
bit beforehand – I only want to have sex with people I can be
friends with. That said, I certainly do kiss, cuddle and fuck on
the first date if mood, attitude, personality and body odor fit. I
do safer sex
only and usually have condoms
and latex gloves
with me in case sex
If you message me because we are both looking for a short- or
, note that I cannot
guarantee that outcome. I tend to have a match score of around 95%
or more with my partners. Many of my long-term relationships
resulted from friendships that grew to include casual sex. Most of
my relationships were with non-monogamous sex-positive feminist
Please absolutely refrain from messaging me if:
• You cannot handle your anger or jealousy.
• You tend to lie to make others feel good.
• You cannot handle honest answers.
• You do not want to accept a “No”.
• You tend to “forget“ condoms.