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bigdaddyluv

32 / M / straight / Single

Chicago, Illinois

The Skinny

Last Online
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Ethnicity
Black
Height
5' 8" (1.72m).
Body Type
—
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating
Smokes
No
Drinks
Often
Drugs
—
Religion
—
Sign
Aries and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Other
Income
$20,000–$30,000
Kids
Likes children
Pets
—
Languages
English (Fluently)

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I am sexy, creative, and energetic.

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My Self-Summary

I am a fun-loving guy who spends time on his iMac, making music and learning animation. I recently moved to the North Side and I am looking to make new friends and have a girlfriend to explore same.

I'm up for anything, from dancing to exploring a museum, or singing Journey songs all night at the karaoke bar.

I am great with people and I can draw a crowd, but if there's no one interesting there, I'll get bored and leave. I am a born giver who is loyal and supportive and I expect the same, which is why I keep few friends.

What I’m doing with my life

Since we are in a "recession", I am taking the opportunity to live a desire-less life (less gadgets and junk) and concentrate on living a more desired life (friends, family & funky iTunes collection) and allowing the universe to fulfill my needs.

I spending a lot of time working on a screenplay and composing crazy but fun songs on Garageband on my mac.

I’m really good at

Making people laugh and making people feel good about themselves. Walking into stores and talking to salespeople with a British accent.

The first things people usually notice about me

My eyes and my lips. I have a memserizing gaze and my full, sensuous lips are are a color I like to call fuschia fantastico.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Thanks to the library I burn through three books a month without going into debt... My favorite go-to books are Shogun by James Clavell, Cryptonomicon by Neal Stephenson and anything by Ayn Rand and Henning Mankell.

My favorite movies are The Big Lebowski, Around the World in 80 Days (Jackie Chan version), The Bourne Identity and any movie made by Woody Allen, The Coen Bros. or Wes Anderson.

I LOVE classic rock, metal, electronica, classic R&B and a sprinkling of Rap music. I was raised on House music, The Beatles and Johnny Mathis, so take that with ya.

The six things I could never do without

music, laughter, the faces of my niece and three nephews.

I spend a lot of time thinking about

This colossal, ungodly screenplay I'm trying to get produced. All my favorite fall shows-- Mad Men, Sons of Anarchy, Damages and Nip/Tuck.

On a typical Friday night I am

Out dancing. I love Summer Dance in Chicago... Dancing outdoors is something I highly recommend.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I'd rather watch TNT than BET. And TNT mostly sucks.

You should message me if

You have beautiful eyes and love to laugh...
You love to dance, whether at the club or in your apartment...
You are looking for a relaxed and drama-free relationship...
You have a positive personality, finding the silver lining in
every cloud...
You want to meet an actual human being and not
spend forever yakking online...
You are in the Chicago area and you have a photo.

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