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32 American Canyon, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 18–39
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Mar 13
6′ 3″ (1.91m)
Body type
Mostly anything
Other, but not too serious about it
Virgo, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Open relationship
Mostly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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I am at a point in my life where I am taking time to Master my own affiars and aspects of my life. I'm in an open relationship with my primary/collared sub. We each know who the other sees and are committed to complete honesty between each other. We also have the rule that we don't help others cheat behind their partners' backs.

I am Poly, and I'm interested in emotionally connected relationships. What I'm looking for is another woman around my age, that would be open to joining both of us, creating a poly household, and having my biological children that all of us can raise together. It would be useful if you're also into D/s relationships, though not absolutely required.

My 24/7 collared sub is My primary and comes as part of a package deal with Me. You would be a 2nd Primary, where you would eventually become my legal wife.

Ideally, I would like you to be a natural blonde and fair skinned.

I am open, flirty, and forward. Honesty and integrity are my top values. If you ask me a direct question, I will answer it. If I believe that the answer may upset you, I may ask you, "Do you really want to know?" If you say yes, I WILL tell you.
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm an intimacy and sex coach. I help people that have gone through a divorce or other large shifts in their life to create an uninhibited sex life and relationships that they truly desire.
I’m really good at
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Connecting with others one on one and listening.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My eyes and my energy.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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For movies, I like comedies, sci-fi, and romance. I do get emotionally moved by things and I'm open with the emotions that I'm feeling.

I love musicals! My favorite is Wicked!

I really enjoy doing karaoke, both listening to others and singing myself. I enjoy a large variety of music styles including pop hits, country, and oldies.

I'm not very picky about food and will try about anything. I do enjoy things with a bit of spice to them that gives the food a little kick.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Deep and meaningful relationships with others
Decent food
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The life that I'm creating and manifesting:
My future biological children, my submissive and my wife as my primaries raising children together with me, living in our home in the East Bay area of Ca. My coaching practice is full and I'm also doing live seminars and talks, helping people attract and create the exact relationships that they want and desire!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I've been in the BDSM lifestyle for over 10 years. I'm also poly and desire multiple emotional and sexual relationships.

My romantic interest in men is very limited and mainly stays with just kissing and cuddling.
You should message me if
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You are intersted in getting to know me more and seeing what kind of connections we can create together. I'm looking to meet those that are open minded sexually.

Understand that currently I have an agreement with my primary that anyone that I begin seeing will meet her in person at least once to shake her hand before we go on our second date.