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My self-summary
I'm in an open relationship with my female primary/collared sub, Lydia707. We each know who the other sees and are committed to complete honesty between each other. We also have the rule that we don't help others cheat behind their partners' backs.

I am Poly, and I'm interested in emotionally connected relationships. What I'm looking for is another woman around my age, that would be open to joining both of us, creating a poly household, and having my biological children that all three of us can raise together. It would be useful if you're also into D/s relationships, though not absolutely required.

My primary comes as part of a package deal with me, though we can date either both of us as a couple, or just me one-on-one. We do have a rule that before getting together with a new person for a third time, they are required to meet our primary if they haven't yet met.

We are desiring a woman that is open to being primary to both of us. We're looking to create an open V, so any of us would be able to see others occasionally as well.

In the past 6 months, I've let my hair grow out and also grown a beard. My primary likes it, so I'm trying it out for right now. The short hair/clean cut pics are from before that. I just added a couple of recent pics that were taken of me when I went to Sex Geek Summer Camp.

I am open, flirty, and forward. Honesty and integrity are my top values. If you ask me a direct question, I will answer it. If I believe that the answer may upset you, I may ask you, "Do you really want to know?" If you say yes, I WILL tell you.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm an alternative relationship coach. I help people that are tired of living a lie to attract and keep the experiences and relationships that they truly desire, specializing in Poly and BDSM.

I am also a driver for Lyft/Uber, mainly on the weekends. I'm also currently learning how to profitably trade options and going through financial classes/training for that.

I am a committed life long learner and have a variety of interests.
I’m really good at
Connecting with others one on one and listening.
The first things people usually notice about me
My eyes and my energy.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
For movies, I like comedies, sci-fi, and romance. I do get emotionally moved by things and I'm open with the emotions that I'm feeling.

I love musicals! My favorite is Wicked!

I really enjoy doing karaoke, both listening to others and singing myself. I enjoy a large variety of music styles including pop hits, country, and oldies.

I'm not very picky about food and will try about anything. I do enjoy things with a bit of spice to them that gives the food a little kick.
The six things I could never do without
Deep and meaningful relationships with others
Decent food
I spend a lot of time thinking about
The life that I'm creating and manifesting:
My future biological children, my submissive and my wife as my primaries raising children together with me, living in our home in the East Bay area of Ca. My coaching practice is full and I'm also doing live seminars and talks, helping people attract and create the exact relationships that they want and desire!
On a typical Friday night I am
Driving for Lyft/Uber - one of the busiest nights of the week! I do occasionally take the weekend off to do personal, fun things take advantage of my season pass to 6 Flags Discovery Kingdom.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I've been in the BDSM lifestyle for over 10 years. I'm also poly and desire multiple emotional and sexual relationships.

My romantic interest in men is very limited and mainly stays with just kissing and cuddling with guys.

I'm very open and frank, if you're willing to ask.
You should message me if
You are intersted in getting to know me more and seeing what kind of connections we can create together. I'm looking to meet those that are open minded sexually, ideally identifying as poly and kink friendly.

Understand that currently I have an agreement with my primary that anyone that I begin seeing will meet her in person at least once to shake her hand before we meet for a third time, if you've not yet met her, Lydia707.