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biggityblam

27 M Brooklyn, NY

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
Trying to quit
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Judaism, and laughing about it
Sign
Aquarius, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Entertainment / Media
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Latin (Poorly), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
likes: burritos, animals of most all shapes and sizes, many pizzas, beer, books, the beach (in moderation), coffee, cocktails, late nights and late mornings, house parties

dislikes: spiders, hawaiian pizza, jerks, dubstep

I'm sick of this username and wish it was "a_spooky_ghost" but no way am i gonna pay to change it.

@a_cool_me everywhere it counts
What I’m doing with my life
i go to the office and do my job (which involves indie film distribution), then i go home and try to convince my cat to not be a jerk while i watch jeopardy. when i'm not at work, i'm out browsing through bookstores, walking through the park, hitting up the chelsea piers driving range, or doing my best at bar trivia nights.

in a dream, i'm running a bar somewhere in brooklyn with some sawdust on the floor, a nice jukebox and a rotating list of taps and cocktail specials. also i won the lottery so if nobody but my friends come in i'm still good.

also, the bar has a dog.

i once asked stacey london what the difference between a shootie and a bootie is (she didn't know - do you know? does anyone?). i try to read about a book a week, do my best at the NYT crossword every day, and check out every dog that walks by.
I’m really good at
yelling at people on tv when they're wrong on Jeopardy! (UPDATE: we somehow don't get ABC anymore so I haven't done this in a while - i'm fiending for Jeopardy!), email chains with my coworker that're just pictures of cute animals and word art, deciding what kind of pizza to get, picking up stuff (like boxes or piles of magazines) and moving them from one place to another, loving zoos.

one of my roommates recently said "if there's one thing joe's good at, it's finding funny pictures of ja rule online". so, hey, that's another skill.
The first things people usually notice about me
i'm either the dude walking into your party with a sixpack at 1 am or the guy sitting on the train reading quietly and trying not to take up too much space or the guy making some good jokes

i look a lot like oscar wilde and if i've had enough of something (like french fries or cherries or whatever), i'll say "i'm good off that"
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
P.G. Wodehouse, Gillian Flynn, Raymond Chandler, Jonathan Lethem, Michael Chabon, Gary Shteyngart, Tana French, Donna Tartt. mysteries are cool as hell. i dig on non-fiction and pop psychiatry/philosophy too. currently chugging along through A People's History of the United States.

movies i dig: Die Hard, Bill & Ted's Excellent Adventure, Men In Black, documentaries about cool/weird stuff, Indiana Jones and whatever, westerns, pretty much anything John Carpenter. i liked snowpiercer.

Community, RuPaul's Drag Race, Archer, Justified (I know I'll never be Raylan Givens but it's good to have impossible goals), Arrested Development, Twin Peaks, Parks & Rec, Party Down, The Wire, Bob's Burgers, Always Sunny, Law & Order (Briscoe/Green era), Wilfred, OITNB, TNG, Married With Children, etc.

y'all like donuts? there's a donut shop near my place, they're good. we'll get a marble twist sometime. other tasty things: brussels sprouts, burgers, spinach. indian food. tacos. seltzer forever and ever amen.

my musical taste is... eclectic, but i'll never force anyone to listen to my playlists. that's a Joe Guarantee. i will probably make you listen to me sing karaoke, though. that's a Joe Warning.
The six things I could never do without
- Y O U T U B E Dot Com A Google Product (i mean i guess i could but i love weird videos - sorry if you're scoping this on a phone because none of those links work)
- a pen (current favorite is the Pilot Precise V5 - i've got a pink one that i use on all official office paperwork)
- bagels (everything > whole wheat everything > sourdough > poppyseed > all the rest of the bagels > salt)
- the last five minutes of free bird (deal with it)
- our furry friends (pets own)
- a big old mug to pour coffee into (i take it with milk or half+half, no sugar - sorry if that's a dealbreaker)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
if I trust myself to take care of a cactus; moving to the island of cats; when/where my next cup of coffee is; could i pull off cowboy boots; how i should probably work out if i'm going to pull off cowboy boots; what time of night is the best for switching from microbrews to miller high life; ranking dog breeds (labs and retrievers who wear bandannas > shibas and corgis > other dogs).
On a typical Friday night I am
have you ever seen the video for lionel richie's "running with the night"? yeah, its a lot like that.

on other nights, i like to sit in a bar with my friends and just shoot the progressively drunker shit. board games and cards may be involved.

or maybe i'm home watching netflix. hey, it's my friday night and i do what i want with it (as should everyone).
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
i want to buy a replica of clint eastwood's poncho from "a fistful of dollars" and wear it around the house and maybe outside?
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 22–28
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
you want to go to the museum of morbid anatomy with me, or any other cool weird museum

you wanna talk about sandwiches

if you want to go and drink cocktails with me at 8pm and then drink beers at 11pm and eat pizza at 1am and then maybe get another beer

smart/funny girls encouraged, as are girls who have dogs i can play with and girls with tattoos