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bigguy91351

66 / M / Straight / Available

Canyon Country, California

His Details

Last Online
Today – 1:33pm
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 7″ (1.70m).
Body Type
Overweight
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism and very serious about it
Sign
Taurus and it’s fun to think about
Education
Dropped out of two-year college
Job
Retired
Income
Rather not say
Offspring
Has a kid, but doesn’t want more
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
First, I have a spouse who has medical issues that preclude intimacy. And, frequently, she is unable to leave the house. But she understands my need for same. So, I'm looking for a relationship with a woman who does not need marriage, or a full-time partner. Not just for sex, but a true FWB. That said, I am intelligent, witty, steady temperament. Enjoy arts, sciences, film, books, music, food, nature. Easy company. Honest, tolerant, communicative, independent, sensitive, responsible, generous. Like to talk, discuss ideas. Self-assured. Can show emotion when the situation warrants it. Offbeat sense of humor. Love Mammoth in the summer. Collect books, videos, CD's. Been to China (Beijing, Xian, Shanghai, Guilin, Hong Kong), London, Victoria, Vancouver, TJ, Mazatlan, Guadalajara, most of U.S. Cruised to Alaska twice, Hawaii twice, Mexican Riviera, Panama Canal. Polite to everyone. A bit adventurous but not a daredevil. Non-volatile, No heavy baggage. No STD's. Not good with kids, dogs, horses, motorcycles, car races, line dancing, country music, rock climbing, bars, hillbillies, wrestling. Lost 70 lbs. since photo was taken. Still losing (about 1 lb./week.) Passionate; love kissing, hugging, spooning, fondling, etc. Also, please keep in mind when you are viewing my answers to the questionnaire ("The Two Of Us"), that my responses are based upon my current status and not what I would necessarily answer if I were single. Also, as a male, I have answered several questions from a male perspective. For example "Would you date someone who has had a homosexual experience?" would be very different than a woman's response. First, most men are turned on by the idea of two women engaged in intimate contact. Whereas most women would be turned off by the idea of two men so engaged. Also, the STD risk is many times higher for homosexual men than it is for women.
What I’m doing with my life
I've been retired for 2 years. I was a computer consultant before I retired. I spend a lot of time renovating the house, tying up loose ends from my working life, reading.
I’m really good at
Computer stuff, getting massages, kissing, puns (gawd!), giving bad advice, allergic reactions, Heimlich Maneuver, floating, humor, swearing, Jeopardy, spelling, Geography, hard science.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Opening night at Grauman's or the Cinerama Dome. Musso and Frank's at the counter. From simple diners to exclusive restaurants, I like them all. Love to read (science, classics, sci-fi.) Music - most classical, Moody Blues, Who, Pink Floyd, Fleetwood Mac, Queen, Beatles (who doesn't?). You get the idea.
The six things I could never do without
Indoor plumbing (thank you Thomas Crapper)
Air conditioning (thank you Dave Lennox)
friends and partners
Scientific American
a nice car
the mountains
I spend a lot of time thinking about
The meaning of life (or lack thereof), the interactions between the electron and the photon, sex.
On a typical Friday night I am
At home, watching TV or reading (so sad.)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
That I'm not willing to admit anything truly private here, or almost anywhere else.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 45–74
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, activity partners, casual sex
You should message me if
You've read my profile and are still interested (duh!)