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39 / M / Straight / Single

Brooklyn, New York

His Details

Last Online
Online now!
Ethnicity
Black
Height
6′ 2″ (1.88m).
Body Type
A little extra
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Sign
Sagittarius but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Computer / Hardware / Software
Income
$70,000–$80,000
Offspring
Has a kid
Pets
Speaks
English, French (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Quick summary of my life..GO! I was born in Haiti, grew up in Brooklyn, spent my college years in Long Island, moved back to Bklyn for a relationship, which later turned into marriage.

So presently i'm divorced with one child, 14 years old, lives with his mom, my x-wife, who i share custody with. I'm a handsome, brilliant, black man with alot to offer a special lady. I've been dating for years now since my divorce, and except for a couple of sensational women who just didnt work out, it's been a blur of nonsense. I'd like to stop dating new people and date someone exclusively, ultimately leading to a long term relationship.
What I’m doing with my life
my main focus is raising my son to be a good black man. Secondly my main purpose in life is to make the web a better place. It's pretty much what i do all day everyday.
I’m really good at
anything digital. computers are my life. i spend all day at work on one, and sometimes all night on one...
The first things people usually notice about me
is that i'm this BIG black guy. 6'2" 250lbs+ i could be a linebacker for the NY Giants. I'm pretty sure there are other things that are noticeable but, these are always the comments i hear.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Fav book > The Sicilian by Mario Puzo. Fav Movie > there are way too many to list but I love Spike Lee joint's and all the great trilogies stand out to me. Star Wars, LOTR, Matrix. Fav shows > I'm not one for TV, barely even watch it besides sports, but i have been known to stare at some mindless reality tv. Fav music > R&B, hip hop, reggae, pop, pretty much anything, my itunes crosses all musical genre borders. Fav food > I love to eat period. Not many things that turn me off when it comes to food except things like um liver. tofu.
The six things I could never do without
Iphone. PS3. TV. Macbook. The internet. Shaving cream.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Work. I mean i spend 40-50 hours there a week. After work i prepare for the next day of .... work. On the weekends i clear my mind but shit its sunday and tomorrow is back to work. I do love the kind of work i do, i mean it could be far worse. But i could do without the NYC rat race. yeah no fun.
On a typical Friday night I am
Hanging out with friends at a restaurant/bar or hanging out at home with my son.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
sometimes i wear underwear. sometimes i dont.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 25–35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
your an intelligent attractive woman who is single, lives in NYC (any of the boroughs) and searching for love.