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bigmike3969

42 / M / Straight / Single

Concord, North Carolina

His Details

Last Online
Jan 11
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 0″ (1.83m).
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Smokes
Trying to quit
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Catholicism but not too serious about it
Sign
Virgo and it’s fun to think about
Education
Dropped out of college/university
Job
Construction / Craftsmanship
Income
Rather not say
Offspring
Has kids
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
I couldn't imagine that anyone who's close would say that I'm firing on all eight cylinders. That's to say the elevator doesn't quite reach the top, or maybe I'm a few sandwiches shy of a pic-nic...
That's not completely true. I can be logical and practical, the good with tools kinda guy. I can also be the kinda guy that is totally right brained, free thinking and imaginative. I'm definitely one that gets a bit un-nerved having to introspect his self for a profile.
It's tough, this self summary. I'm just a human being, some good points, some flaws.

I am calm, easy going, and funny

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I’m really good at
Sleeping!! :), love some nap time! ha ha.
I'm good at building things and fixing things, a tools kinda guy. Being creative, painting, poetry, those sort of oddball endeavors.
Maybe I'm not too bad at wasting your time reading this misadventure in self marketing.

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The first things people usually notice about me
I don't have the foggiest idea. I'm six foot tall , good posture, wide shoulders, chest out, gut in type. So I'm told I'm bigger than I see myself.
My eyes used to get compliments, they're a decent light blue.
Maybe I'll ask the next person what they notice and I'll put it on here!

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Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Edgar Allan Poe, Stephen King, Charles Dickens
The Wizard of Oz (All Time Favorite, Hands Down!!!), Anything with Bogart, especially Casablanca. The Marx Brothers. Hell any good Comedy. I'll watch any movie, but I prefer to laugh. There's all sorts of things in life to make you cry or make you scared, no sense in going out of your way to find them.
Music? Hmm. I'll start with Classic Rock. I dig Mozart to Tchaikovsky, Jazz has it's moments. Country and Bluegrass are cool. I can't get into the pop britney bubble gum scene. Old school Funk (parliament, ohio players etc)is cool, but I don't dig rap. I'm pretty easy.
Food : ITALIAN !!!!!!!!!!! Mezzkin is always nice,too
Grilled Shrimp dipped in clarified garlic butter, OMG!!!!!!!!!!!
I would never, never ever, pass up a white chocolate macadamia cookie :}
BACON !

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The six things I could never do without
Laughter,
Hope,
My Children,
learning to count to six...

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I spend a lot of time thinking about
Oodles of stuff. I guess I have ADD, or something like it. If I let my mind wander there's no telling where it's going to go. It's easy for me to get lost in thought,

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On a typical Friday night I am
What's a typical Friday night? There's been times when I had read the Bible, then there's been the times I've fallen off a barstool, and everything in between. The Grateful Dead said it best: "What A Long, Strange Trip It's Been"
If I could have my way, I'd spend Friday night with my lady, I'd cook her dinner, share an after dinner wine, snuggle up on the couch, pretend to watch the tv while mostly nibbling her ear, hold her close and....

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The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm off the mark enough to tell you what I'd do on Friday night !

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I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 30-50
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, activity partners, long-distance penpals
You should message me if
You get bored on Friday

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