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bignick385

28 / M / Straight / Single

Indianapolis, Indiana

His Details

Last Online
Jun 18
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 4″ (1.94m).
Body Type
A little extra
Diet
Anything
Smokes
Sometimes
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Aries but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from high school
Job
Entertainment / Media
Income
$40,000–$50,000
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
Full-time lead singer of Expecting Casualties.
Full-time sales consultant at Sprint.
Part-time poet, boozer, and gamer.
Enjoyer of cheap cigars.
Storyteller fucking extraordinaire.
Stoic by choice, atheist by nature, political centrist by immersion.
Audiophile.
Perennial gentleman (unless I'm in the bedroom, or in the limelight; in those circumstances, all bets are off.)
What I’m doing with my life
Staying busy. Idle hands are the devil's workshop, and I have shit to do, pretty much all the time. Would enjoy a little more fine company while I do it.

Learning. Learning to play acoustic guitar, learning to be a vocalist and lyricist, and learning to cook.

Oh, also, feverishly and frantically working on a Ragnarök leg sleeve. The event, not the band member.
I’m really good at
Debating, cooking Mexican food, bossing people around, playing bass, appreciating good music, ridiculing bad music, intimidation, singing, being tall, chess, scrabble, avoiding sidewalk-cracks, creating words, reading half of Russian novels, ignoring ignorance, quoting Mitch Hedberg, a game called "Less Ambitious Movies" (The Marginal Seven, for instance, or The League of Painfully Average Gentlemen), waxing eloquent, and long, self-involved lists.
The first things people usually notice about me
I am not a small man. That much is clear. People maintain that I'm a big teddy bear. I maintain that I'm not being slept with nearly enough for this to be the case.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books of the week (or two):

1) Evolution for Everyone
2) A Brief History of Time
3) The Humanist Bible

Albums of the week (or two)

1] Amon Amarth-Twilight of the Thunder God
(which is EXACTLY as metal as it sounds)
2] Affiance- No Secret Revealed
(The vocals on this album blow me away. Powerful beyond reason)
3] Protest the Hero-Scurrilous
(The guitars. Oh, the guitars)

...TV sucks.
The six things I could never do without
Biological essentials aside?

A guitar
Somebody to talk to
A good book
Music
My phone (sucks, but it's true)
Reliable transportation

Honorable mentions for blankets and bedside lamps.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
What to say next. How I should live. What if ______ does/says _______? My flaws. My strengths. Sex. Work. Music.
On a typical Friday night I am
Working. Every Friday. Beyond that it's a mystery, but not really an interesting one, since I also work roughly every Saturday. Oh, retail. ...Sundays are for band practice.

Free time for me is a fucking unicorn, and I wouldn't have it any other way. I fill it when I find it. Fortunately for you, dear reader, I prioritize well enough.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Sometimes, the urge to quit social norms and live like a Viking is almost overwhelming.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 21–32
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, activity partners
You should message me if
Message me if you think you can keep up. ...I would suggest hedging your bets. ;D