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bigoldeven

32 / M / Straight / Single

Ridgewood, New York

His Details

Last Online
May 18
Ethnicity
Other
Height
5′ 4″ (1.63m).
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Mostly vegan
Smokes
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Pisces
Education
Working on masters program
Job
Artistic / Musical / Writer
Income
Offspring
Pets
Speaks
English, French

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My self-summary
Music is my life.

I'm sensitive and
not afraid of being vulnerable.

but, I also have more determination
and discipline than most.
What I’m doing with my life
Performing, teaching, finishing my thesis in music therapy, working as a music therapist.
I’m really good at
being fun and silly, once you get to know me ;)

dedicating myself to what/who I love.
The first things people usually notice about me
I think it depends on who is doing the noticing. You tell me?

Generally I guess people think I'm calm and peaceful, but that's just one part of me
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Anything by Tom Waits, Charles Bukowski, Leonard Cohen, Mashkoor Ali Khan....
The six things I could never do without
seeing reality for what it is
practicing/playing music
really good coffee
amazing sex
being silly/laughing
serving others with music
On a typical Friday night I am
Seeing music
Performing music
Having an ilslay scotch(laphroig or ardbeg)
or maybe chilin' at my favorite cafe (https://maps.google.com/maps?oe=utf-8&client=firefox-a&ie=UTF-8&q=google+maps+cafe+dantes&fb=1&gl=us&hq=cafe+dantes&hnear=0x89c24fa5d33f083b:0xc80b8f06e177fe62,New+York,+NY&cid=0,0,4339773443060882983&ei=PTGXUOL0HOrg0gGcjID4Dg&ved=0CHsQ_BIwAw) follow the link, yes that's me outside!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I lived in a vocal booth for almost two years and it was transformative! Ask me about it.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 21–40
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends
You should message me if
You think you have the craziest sense of humor of all the people you know. This will change if you meet me :)

You know where this quote is from or you like it:

O, troubledness concealing
An undivided love
The heart beneath is teaching
To the broken heart above

And let the heavens falter
Let the earth proclaim
Come healing of the altar
Come healing of the name