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47 Oakland, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 35–48
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Mar 28
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body type
Not at all
Atheism, but not too serious about it
Pisces, but it doesn’t matter
Doesn’t have kids
Likes cats

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My self-summary
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I'm trying to enjoy life with a peaceful mind. I'm active in many things and interested in trying many more. Id rather be outdoors than in but indoors isn't so bad either. I'm in a super happy place right now.
You should join me.
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm currently a Nanny and it has been the most rewarding job Ive ever had.
I also make stuff.
I like to ride my bike as far as I can.
bike camping/touring
Trying to live car free. So far so good. I have a pick-up but I haven't driven it in over four years.
Trying to learn new songs on the ukulele for the children I take care of.
I also play other instruments so if you want to start a band I'm listening.
Re-teaching myself to paint with watercolors with the use of a very small brush.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Making stuff. (art)
Riding my bike as far as I can.
Being a Manny.
Camping/starting a campfire.
Fixing things.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I have a loud laugh.
I have been known to be a sharp dresser but Im no dandy.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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to many books.
to much music.
I like to eat but Im no foodie.
Im not much of a cook until Im over a campfire then I'm great.
The Wire and Deadwood pretty much ruined episodic T.V. for me. I've begrudgingly watched Game of Thrones but I've read the books so even if HBO ends it in the middle I'll still know what happens.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. making stuff
2. friends
3. campgrounds
4. I have six bikes and seem unwilling to part with any of them.
5. music
6. white elephant sale
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Living off the grid but also making that sound like Im a responsible adult.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I'm older now. I prefer to go to bed early so I can go for a long bike ride Saturday morning and enjoy the whole day.
That doesn't mean I'm against doing something fun.
I don't need to go to Art Murmur any more as Ive seen enough bad art to suffice.
That doesn't mean I'm against going to an art gallery.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I feel like I'm always on the verge of giving up on this ok cupid thing but keep looking just in case.
I probably need a dating coach.
You should message me if
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