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42 • M • Oakland, CA
- Last Online
- Aug 17
- 5′ 8″ (1.73m)
- Body Type
- Mostly anything
- Agnosticism, and laughing about it
- Scorpio, but it doesn’t matter
- Rather not say
- Relationship Status
- Relationship Type
- Likes dogs and likes cats
- English (Fluently), Japanese (Poorly)
I love "Been Down So Long It Looks Like Up to Me" "Tiger, Tiger" and "The Once and Future King". I guess I mostly read Sci-Fi, but I also like classics and modern novelists (Cormac McCarthy, John Irving, Jim Harrison etc).
"Who's Afraid of Virginia Woolf?" is my all time favorite movie. I'm also a big fan of "Naked" (Mike Leigh), "Withnail & I", "Mystery Train", "Raising Arizona", "Rushmore", "Careful", "Poison", "Kings of The Road", "Solaris" and lot's of others.
I love food, just about all types of food. All it has to be, is made well. Soul food is among my favorites, BBQ chicken, greens, mac n cheese... Love Indian food, Dim Sum, Italian seafood, Mexican seafood, funnel cake, ice cream, sushi, carnitas tacos ... etc. For whatever reason I'm not real big on most pizza.
music... I like a lot of stuff. All time favorites are Lou Reed, Brian Eno, Sonic Youth, Smiths, The Cure, Dead Can Dance, Run DMC, Cocteau Twins, Prince, Marc Bolan, Roxy Music, Wire, Swell Maps ... a lot of 70's punk/glam and 80's punk/goth, but I like almost everything else too.
I recently discovered Vladimir Vysotsky, amazing stuff.
a pair of working legs
back yard barbecues
(not necessarily in that order)
- Girls who like guys
- Ages 27–45
- Near me
- Who are single
- For long-term dating, short-term dating
you prefer to hang with people outdoors, you find that bars are kind of a drag unless there's a REALLY good band playing (and the bar has an out door area to escape the crowd), you find that some TV shows are good, but a campfire with friends is still more fun to stare at, you've grown out of wild raging parties, but haven't grown out of having fun.
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