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31 Oakland, CA Man


I’m looking for

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  • Ages 20–42
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends

My Details

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5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Less than $20,000
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous

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My self-summary
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Rough around the edges but ultimately sound, I think. I question things often.

I'm kind of a staunch feminist but you wouldn't know it by looking at me. I tend to go hard against the grain when my principles are involved but otherwise I like to go with the flow.

And, oddly (if you know me), I have a soft spot for astrology. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
What I’m doing with my life
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Activities. Helping my friends clean their houses and install hard-to-reach lightbulbs. Drinking coffee and playing boardgames. Being human and trying to be as genuine as fuck about the whole thing.

Working a few jobs to keep busy and for fun.

Throwing down on the dance floor whenever Paper Planes is on.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Games: making them up, playing them, teaching them, crafting them. Dancing. Cooking. Actually I'm good at whatever I do. Shit is easy.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Whatever it is, perhaps it says more about them than me. Beardo.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I'm good with whatever is good. A lot of things can be well received depending on context and circumstance.

Current recurring Pandora station is seeded with Wanda Jackson's Funnel of Love.

Making dinner with friends and wine is one of my favorite activities.

Reading a book by Ben Bova called New Earth. It's okayyy.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Lightheartedness is pretty important. Tolerance, dialogue. The Socratic Method. A kitchen is a lovely thing to have. Bicycle.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Intersectionality. Yoga. Boardgames.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Doin somethin with people I like.
You should message me if
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you want to do the hangy-outy thing.. cuz beyond that this place is meaningless to me.

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