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60 M Oakland, CA

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Last Online
Yesterday – 11:06pm
Black, Native American, White
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Not at all
Libra, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Has a kid, but doesn’t want more

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My self-summary
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My name here is Sail-into-your-♥ but I couldn't retain the heart symbol in my name for some reason. I am a man sensitive to the needs of women. We all need love, companionship, and intimacy so let's give it to each other. Formerly traveling the world as a professional navigator has opened my eyes to a big truth: Except for cultural differences, people are the same worldwide. An open-minded woman would be my best match.
What I’m doing with my life
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Taking a break to finishing my book, practicing good will to all, and giving great care to finding a great match.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Reading people's intentions, non-verbal, beneath the surface.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I show self-confidence, am a lively guy, and I have a caring demeanor.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Cool Stuff and How it Works, Strategic Vision, Physics For Future Presidents, Black and Blue-The Red Foxx Story, Spiritual Books-too many to mention. Flight was good; The Ghost and Mrs. Muir was good. Maleficent the movie was surprisingly good. Soul, Latin, Jazz and Rock are some types of music I like. Yoshi's is the place. Mexican, Chinese and vegetarian are some foods I like.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Family, the love of a special woman, writing, Tai Chi, traveling, finding new tricks and jokes, and trying new things. Oh, that's seven, pardon me Ok Cupid.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to produce a best seller.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Visiting friends or Family, playing board games, writing, and listening to good music. After we meet Friday nights will be more exciting for us both I think.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I want to reach the deepest recesses of a woman's private mind.
I’m looking for
  • Straight girls only
  • Ages 43–60
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
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You are a woman: who knows herself well, is loving, knows how to communicate well and looks at life as an adventure. If you like to travel we can go together. I like the Philippines, Sri Lanka, England, Colombia, New Zealand, China, Taiwan, South Africa, Mauritius, Trinidad, Mexico and many other countries.