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60 Emeryville, CA Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 45-68
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Today – 7:30pm
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
5' 10" (1.78m)
Body Type
Average build
Post grad
Might want kids
English, Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Married, but looking for a discreet friend. I am happy just talking or discussing issues, but possibly you desire more.

Long term face-to-face friendship is the goal. I like a woman's perspective.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Likes: Intelligent women who challenge me and are challenging. Dark coffee with cream, thought provoking movies as well as blockbusters. Family. Teachers. Shortish hair. Ampersands. Tortelinni

Dislikes: Double parking and xenophobia. Or xenophobic double parkers.

I am tolerant, hapa, prompt, hopeful, and avuncular.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Absolutely nothing. I'm sort of good at deflecting praise, giving directions, and excel spreadsheets
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm happy go lucky.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: mysteries and spy novels: Alan Furst, John Sandford, James Lee Burke, Elmore Leonard (RIP), John Le Carre, Alex Berenson, Olen Steinauer, Michael Connelly.

Other titles and authors: Hop on Pop, Matterhorn, The Things that they Carried, Amazing Adventures of Kavalier and Clay, Michael Chabon, Cormac McCarthy, Neal Stephenson.

Jose Saramago

Movies: American Hustle, La Grande Belleza, Searching for Sugarman, Anything by Almodovar, A Single Man, Boyhood, Roman Holiday, Winter's Bone, The Third Man, Moonrise Kingdom, Nebraska

Berkeley Rep

TV: The Daily Show, The Wire, Mad Men, Braod City, Game of Thrones, Girls

Music: Arctic Monkeys, The Killers, Oscar Peterson, Kings of Leon, Elvis Costello, White Stripes, Manu Chao, Rufus Wainwright, Radiohead, The Who, Sarah Vaughn, The Shins
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
smart, witty women,
tasty food,
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How a person's smile says so much about them.
Dan Savage and the concept of monogamish.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Take-out from somewhere so I can just unwind.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I can be private & optimistic
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You are interested in meeting a kindred spirit and/or want to make-out