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bilbo1617

59 M Emeryville, CA

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Asian, White
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Sign
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Income
Relationship Status
Married
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
Offspring
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English, Japanese (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly), Italian (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Married, but looking for a discreet friend. I am happy just talking & discussing issues but possibly you desire more.

Long term face to face friendship being the goal. I like a woman's perspective.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Likes: Intelligent women who challenge me and are challenging. Dark coffee with cream, thought provoking movies as well as blockbusters. Family. Teachers. Shortish hair. Ampersands. Tortelinni

Dislikes: double parking and people who misuse handicap placards (traffic theme) Not a fan of xenophobia.

I am tolerant, prompt, and avuncular.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
deflecting praise, trying to help others, giving directions, and excel spreadsheets
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I smile a lot (because I have a lot to smile about)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: mysteries and spy novels: Alan Furst, John Sandford, James Lee Burke, Elmore Leonard (RIP), John Le Carre, Alex Berenson, Olen Steinauer, Michael Connelly.

Other titles and authors: Hop on Pop, Matterhorn, The Things that they Carried, Adventures of Kavalier and Klay, Michael Chabon, Cormac McCarthy.

Movies: American Hustle, The great Beauty, The Simpsons' Movie, Anything by Almodovar, A Simple Man, Inception, Roman Holiday, Winter's Bone, The Third Man, Moonrise Kingdom, Audrey Hepburn, Liz Taylor, Nebraska

Berkeley Rep

TV: The Daily Show, The Wire, Mad Men, Parks and Recreation, Game of Thrones, Girls

Music: Arctic Monkeys, The Killers, Oscar Peterson, Kings of Leon, Elvis Costello, White Stripes, Manu Chao, Rufus Wainwright, Radiohead, The Who, Sarah Vaughn, The Shins
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
smiling,
kids,
women,
family,
tasty food,
emotions
kissing
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How a person's smile says so much about them.
Dan Savage and the concept of monogamish.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Take-out from somewhere so I can just unwind.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I like to make-out.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 47–66
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You are interested in meeting a kindred spirit. I like a woman who is confident to message me.