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bilbo1617

59 M Emeryville, CA

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Asian, White
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Sign
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Income
Relationship Status
Married
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
Offspring
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English, Japanese (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly), Italian (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Married, but looking for a discreet friend. I am happy just talking & discussing issues but possibly you desire more. Long term face to face friendship being the goal. I like a woman's perspective.
What I’m doing with my life
Likes: Intelligent women who challenge me and are challenging. Dark coffee with cream, thought provoking movies as well as blockbusters. Family. Teachers. Shortish hair. Ampersands.

Dislikes: double parking and people who misuse handicap placards (traffic theme)
I am tolerant, prompt, and avuncular. Not a fan of xenophobia.
I’m really good at
deflecting praise, trying to help others, giving directions, and excel spreadsheets
The first things people usually notice about me
I smile a lot (because I have a lot to smile about)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: mysteries and spy novels: Alan Furst, John Sandford, James Lee Burke, Elmore Leonard (RIP), John Le Carre, Alex Berenson, Stuart Kaminsky, Stella Rimington, Brain Freemantle, Michael Connelly.

Other titles and authors: Hop on Pop, Matterhorn, The Things that they Carried, Adventures of Kavalier and Klay, Michael Chabon, Cormac McCarthy.

Movies: American Hustle, There will be Blood, Eastern Promises, The Simpsons' Movie, Anything by Almodovar, A Simple Man, Inception, Roman Holiday, Winter's Bone, The Third Man, Moonrise Kingdom, Beasts of the Southern Wild, Audrey Hepburn, Liz Taylor, Nebraska

Berkeley Rep

TV: The Daily Show, The Wire, It's Always Sunny in Philadelphia, Mad Men, Parks and Recreation, Game of Thrones, Girls, Workaholics

Music: Arctic Monkeys, The Killers, Oscar Peterson, Kings of Leon, Elvis Costello, White Stripes, Manu Chao, Rufus Wainwright, Radiohead, The Who, Sarah Vaughn, The Shins
The six things I could never do without
smiling,
kids,
women,
family,
tasty food,
emotions
kissing
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How a person's smile says so much about them.
Dan Savage and the concept of monogamish.
I wonder if a kindred spirit will message me.
On a typical Friday night I am
Take-out from somewhere so I can just unwind. Thinking about playing tennis on the weekend
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I like to make-out.
I like to get up early on weekends and get things done before it gets crowded
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 41–66
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
I really have no idea what I'm doing sometimes. But I'm trying. And maybe you want to try also.