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30 M La Salle, IL

I’m looking for

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  • Ages 21–43
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My Details

Last Online
Sep 29
Body Type
Mostly anything
Graduated from masters program
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Likes dogs and has cats

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My self-summary
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Hi there, my name is Shane and I am a single white male who is looking for that special someone to spend my life with. I know that sounds a bit forward but hey its what my goal is here so might as well be upfront with that. Not into games just want to get to know someone who knows what a real relationship is. Im a goofy sort, love laughing and my favorite thing is laughing at myself (if I didn't sometimes I would probably go crazy) so hopefully you have a silly side like myself. In short,  I just want someone I can laugh and grow with..

With that said I am a real old fashioned male. I believe the guy persues the girl,  and if you wouldn't say it to your mother or grand mother, you shouldn't say it at all. I believe in pulling chairs out, opening doors, small notes of affection in odd places and sending flowers (even when you've done nothing wrong). In short I am a romantic and a gentlmen.Don't get that twisted though. That doesn't make me a sap. I am not clingy or needy and like my space as much as everyone else.  Therefore I will always respect yours. I have a rough side and will challenge you if I feel the need (as I think all partners should), in short I am not a push over.

I won't make this too long winded as I could tell you much about myself, but I honestly feel talking and getting to know is a lot of the fun, in short.. why spoil the ending?

I'm real, I know how to treat a lady, and I would much like to get to know you. Here is to hoping I hear back from you, and if not have a lovely day and I hope your search finds you well. In short.  Thanks for taking the time to read this..
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Living it !!!! (which makes me wonder why I am typing it right now =/ ). Btw what kind of question is this!!!!!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Traveling (its kind of what I do). I have seen about 35 states and about 20 mahor u.s cities. Exploration has alwaya excited me. I've lived in Australia for seven years at one time. I'm cultured and very intelligent. As well I'm a published poet. There's not much I haven't excelled at when putting my mind to it..
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
most would either say how laid back and down to earth I am or if its physical they usually comment on my eyes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Primal fear, Jeff Dellenbach (the movie sucked though if you liked it read the book).

Movies: Lord of The Rings, Shawshank Redemption, The Notebook, Avatar, Chopper..

Shows: Boardwalk empire, Game of Thrones, Shameless, Two and a Half Men, house..

Food: Pizza, Lasagna, Chicken Parm... Oh hell just about anything italian..

Music: Classic 80's and 90's rock. Tom Petty, Bob Siegar, Journer, Aeorosmith that type of stuff. Generally I can listen to anything but rap.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Air, water, carbon, sun, food, money..
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Air, food, water, electricity, bills, toilet paper, sugar (its my caffeine ), where my keys are, did I shut the car lights off hmmm..
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Spending time with my dog or friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I really am drawing a blank here..
You should message me if
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Just so you know: Because I am truly looking for something genuine, I would really prefer to exchange messages, or perhaps an IM chat, to see how we spark mentally. I understand and agree there has to be some physical attraction, but let's make that a secondary requirement and decide after we figure out if we can jive on other levels. After the beauty fades - then all we'll have is conversation/mental stimulation. If we don't have at least THAT to spark us from the start - then we're doomed to empty sighs, meaningless days, staring at each other...while we clean our dentures!! yuck!!! He he