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  • Ages 21-43
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Yesterday – 7:24pm
Body Type
Post grad
Has cats
My self-summary
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"In Search of Well Rounded Independent Woman"

I am self sufficient, independent, easy going, spontaneous & hard working.

If your parents still support you please move on.
If you need a place to stay or you need to borrow money, yeah Don't get me wrong I have no problem helping people out but it shouldn't be something you ask in the first week of communicating.
If you have a criminal background, no thanks.
If you and monogomy cannot get along please don't waste my time.
I apologize for the crude disclosure but it was necessary.
I appreciate simplicity.
I believe in traditional marriage.
I cannot stomach pretentiousness.
I am a strong man of faith.
I work short hours and do very well for myself and I am financially secure. But that doesn't mean I'm not a hard worker. It's hard work that got me here.
I keep busy and I have very good friends in my life.
I have a lot of love to give.
I am ready to let the right woman on my island.
I very much would like to be in a loving, mutually satisfying relationship.
Like most of us I am guarded..
None of us wants to get hurt or played.
This is why I am careful about who I invest in.
I never take more than I leave behind and I understand the importance of reciprocation in relationships.
I appreciate the little things.
I enjoy deep conversations about life and I love to learn..
I appreciate maturity, intelligence, honesty, respect, trust, affection and a sense of humor.
Transparency in a relationship is very important to me.
I am sort of a homebody.
Not a fan of loud crowded places.
Not a big drinker.
I'll have a glass of wine on occasion.
I will take a night of snuggling in front of the fire pit over sitting in a bar any day of the week.
I enjoy cooking, reading, spending time with my children and many more activities. But those are near the top of my list.
A hard working, family oriented woman of good moral character who loves God, Animals & Children would be dream come true.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Work work and more work!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Traveling (its kind of what I do). I have seen about 35 states and about 20 mahor u.s cities. Exploration has alwaya excited me. I've lived in Australia for seven years at one time. I'm cultured and very intelligent. As well I'm a published poet. There's not much I haven't excelled at when putting my mind to it..
The first things people usually notice about me
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most would either say how laid back and down to earth I am or if its physical they usually comment on my eyes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Primal fear, Jeff Dellenbach (the movie sucked though if you liked it read the book).

Movies: Lord of The Rings, Shawshank Redemption, The Notebook, Avatar, Chopper..

Shows: Boardwalk empire, Game of Thrones, Shameless, Two and a Half Men, house..

Food: Pizza, Lasagna, Chicken Parm... Oh hell just about anything italian..

Music: Classic 80's and 90's rock. Tom Petty, Bob Siegar, Journer, Aeorosmith that type of stuff. Generally I can listen to anything but rap.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Air, water, carbon, sun, food, money..
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Air, food, water, electricity, bills, toilet paper, sugar (its my caffeine ), where my keys are, did I shut the car lights off hmmm..
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Spending time with my dog or friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I really am drawing a blank here..
You should message me if
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Just so you know: Because I am truly looking for something genuine, I would really prefer to exchange messages, or perhaps an IM chat, to see how we spark mentally. I understand and agree there has to be some physical attraction, but let's make that a secondary requirement and decide after we figure out if we can jive on other levels. After the beauty fades - then all we'll have is conversation/mental stimulation. If we don't have at least THAT to spark us from the start - then we're doomed to empty sighs, meaningless days, staring at each other...while we clean our dentures!! yuck!!! He he