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26 Decatur, GA Man


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  • Ages 24–35
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Today – 3:31pm
6′ 1″ (1.86m)
Body Type
Dropped out of space camp
Art / Music / Writing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Has cats

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My self-summary
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Jazz pianist, contemporary-classical composer, sci-fi geek, introverted, bookish, indoorsy, intellectual pothead
What I’m doing with my life
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I teach piano lessons, I play jazz, funk, and soul gigs, mostly. I write advanced intellectual modern classical music and put it in a desk drawer. I write and record progressive/psychedelic/pop records at home overdubbing all of the instruments and vocals myself, and then don't play them for anybody. I play cocktail piano in the back corners of restaurants and surreptitiously aid digestion. I smoke a lot of herb.
I’m really good at
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Music theory, analog synthesis, useless trivia, making puns, wordplay in general. If you want, you can hear me at
The first things people usually notice about me
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Everybody tells me I look like a college professor.

My very dry sense of humour.

That I am an "old soul," and just how out of my element I am in this bizarre modern world.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Asimov, Tolkien, Heinlein. Dune. 1984. Naked Lunch. I read lots of dry, technical music theory books too.

For TV, I love Star Trek and it's descendants. I started by accidentally flipping to Voyager one night in 1996 on my little UHF tv in my bedroom, was immediately hooked, and very rapidly got into all of the other series. I'm also big on old Dr. Who (I'll take any of the classic era Doctors, particularly Tom Baker, over any of the 2005- ones any day, though I do like nuWho too.) Some old favorites are M*A*S*H, Frasier, Seinfield, Futurama, and, whenever I can catch it, Jeapordy. Also, Monty Python's Flying Circus is just monumentally, inexpressibly brilliant. I recently watched through The Prisoner (1967,) which was really fantastic. I spent countless hours in high school watching Iron Chef (the real one, not the american version,) and Good Eats. For newer stuff, I love Parks and Rec. Breaking Bad was incredible. I just started watching Mad Men.

I tend to like older movies. I'm a major Woody Allen fan, particularly from maybe Sleeper or Love and Death all the way up through Deconstructing Harry. My favorite of his conventional films is Hannah and Her Sisters, and probably my favorite overall is Stardust Memories. I can't overstate how much I love The Marx Brothers. Harpo was my childhood hero, I very much learned my sense of irreverence and refusal to buy into the societal norms that are expected of us from him. Also, 2001 is an astoundingly beautiful film. I love great direction and cinematography, and I will always prefer "in camera" visual effects to their computer generated counterparts. I have a large place in my heart for sci-fi classics like Planet of the Apes, all of the old Trek pictures, but especially II III and IV, the Star Wars trilogy (which I first saw all in one go on TV when I was staying home sick from kindergarten and half delirious with food poisoning. That was some major, world shattering shit, man,) Alien, etc. I love Hitchcock.

The short version: jazz, classical, 60s pop, some more avant garde things. I have pretty far ranging musical interests, they just typically don't extend past about 1976.

The long version: Frank Zappa (all important, cannot be overstated how much I learned from Zappa on the subject of what it truly means to be a serious composer totally dedicated to one's craft,) The Beach Boys (I'm a major, major Brian Wilson acolyte,) The Beatles, J.S. Bach, L.v. Beethoven, Igor Stravinsky, Arnold Schoenberg, Todd Rundgren, Stevie Wonder (particularly from 71 to 76,) Miles Davis, Keith Jarrett (greatest pianist who will ever live,) Wayne Shorter, Bill Evans, Charlie Parker, Herbie Hancock, Chick Corea, Joe Zawinul, Weather Report, Steely Dan, Antonio Carlos Jobim, Joni Mitchell, Pat Metheny, Marvin Gaye, Motown in general, Paul Mccartney's solo records (but not really any of the other guys solo records besides All Things Must Pass,) Terry Riley, John McLaughlin and Shakti. Almost always on vinyl. There are many more, but these are the most important ones to me.

My radio literally never leaves NPR. I'm kind of reeling from the loss of My Word from my Friday night drive home. Sunday nights are the best, what with the TED radio hour, This American Life, Radiolab, and Pipe Dreams.

There isn't really a section for this, but I'm a total sucker for anything the classic BBC Radiophonic Workshop had a hand in. I recently listened to (and really enjoyed) an early 70s BBC radio adaptation of Asimov's Foundation Trilogy.

Italian is great, as are pretty much every Asian cuisine I've run across (Thai, Indian, hell, I have to admit a fondness for American Chinese food too.) I'll probably always have a soft spot for killer hot wings, and a good, medium rare steak. I also love to cook (and am very good at it, I must say,) but it can be kind of depressing to just cook for myself. I'd love to cook for you though!

I'm not a heavy drinker, but I like good beer and good bourbon. Recently, I've been getting into scotch.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My fingers
My bong (and a nice Indica to pack it with)
Sweater vests
Pet Sounds
The art of fugue
The rite of spring
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Going to space
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Finishing up teaching for the week, and then heading either heading to go play a gig, or heading home to watch some netflix.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I have issues with anxiety and social phobia, so meeting and relating to people can be very difficult for me.

Just to get this out of the way, my last girlfriend had some severe sexual psychological hang-ups, and due to my very feminist upbringing (my grandma had a radical feminist radio show in New York City in the early 60s, was an original bra-burner, etc,) I felt (and feel) like it would have been totally gross, mysogonyst, and shallow to leave her just because she wasn't sleeping with me. That lasted a few years, and it's been another few years since. All that is to say that its been a proverbial minute for me, and might take me a little while to get back into the swing of things, so to speak.
You should message me if
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you are exceptionally intelligent, and aren't afraid to let your geek flag fly.

If a night in is always more appealing than a night out.

If mainstream contemporary culture turns you off in a major way.

If your idea of a good time involves quietly reading books together.

If you can teach me to Grok in fullness.