I have a son, a recent college graduate, who I try to see often.
Humor is a huge thing for me. A humorous attitude is a great companion in this life - no? Movies like Some like it Hot, Flirting with Disaster and the Big Lebowski. Other genres: Wings of Desire, The Godfather, Silver Lining Playbook, Metropolis.
Also, spirituality plays a big part in my life- although I'm more interested in the 'spiritual, but not religious' aspect - any philosophy or teaching that helps us stay in this present moment. Eckhart Tolle, Gurdjieff, Krishnamurti.
I do a good WC fields impersonation, though no one knows who that is anymore. And a not bad early Brando.
I play guitar and Blues Harp in the style of Little Walter.
And literature. The Beats. Amazing adventures of Kavalier and Clay. Biographies. Books about quantum physics.
I love and need art and music. I like almost all music, but I love Dylan, Leonard Cohen, Tom Waits, Louis Prima, Ray Charles, Nina Simone, Johnny Cash, Van the Man, ..far too many to list here. And the artists, i guess it's the classics - Vermeer, Rembrandt, Hopper, ....
I could go on and on, at the risk of unveiling my true narcissism...but I won't. If any of this resonates, please drop me a line. I'd like that.
In relationships, I am very independent and appreciate that in others. I also find honesty very important, so, if, for instance, your age is not really your age, it's not a good way to start a relationship.