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37 F Portland, OR

My Details

Last Online
Today – 6:02am
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Gemini, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t want kids
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), Sanskrit (Okay)

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My self-summary
I love to smile and laugh. What could be better then that? I make a true effort to find ease and humor in life. If you see me laughing to myself it is more likely I just amused myself and am not laughing at you. Well unless you just did something funny.

I say thank you to waiters because they are people and they deserve to be acknowledged.

I'm a women that likes to be truly feminine but at the same time likes to dork out about many things (certain sci-fi shows, movies, yoga and much, much more).

I'm opinionated and independent but will listen with interest as I admit, I do not know it all.

I like to get dressed up and drink martinis. I also equally like to drink cheap wine or whiskey by a campfire in the woods.
What I’m doing with my life
Well... Yoga, spending time with friends, relaxing at home, working hard, planning a trip to Scotland and France, enjoying the beginning of summer, looking forward to camping season, reading, looking for love....
I’m really good at
What an interesting question... here are some answers ... silly and serious.

Being a supporting, caring friend
Listening to your problems and giving you honest feedback
Not being flighty
I am quite grounded and realistic
It is an artform to skillfully wear 4 inch heels (you can take me out of NYC but you can't take NYC out of me). You know what I mean if you have seen some girls wobbling around. Painful to see but also quite amusing.
drinking coffee (to answer an opposing question.. I am horrible at starting my day without said cup of coffee)
asking for help when I need it and offering help when others need it.
Frequently amusing myself.. usually with a one liner from Monty Python, Eddie Izzard or other British humor. (what can I say, I know how to amuse myself if anything)
The first things people usually notice about me
Depends on the context...

In writing... that I am a horrible speller
In person... I never really asked so this is a good question. I have been told my hair.

Update: I chopped my hair recently. Drastic? No, not really. 10 inches of hair is being donated to locks of love. This is the second year I did it and it felt amazing. New picture to come.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books - The Handsmaids Tale, To Kill a Mockingbird, The Prophet, Harry Potter (I know, I fought it off for a while but
then gave in now I love them); Lord of the Rings, Lamb, etc etc etc.

Movies - Amelie, Tiger and the Snow, Life is Beautiful, Across the
Universe, Fight Club, In Bruges, The Princess Bride, Private Eyes,
When Harry Met Sally, James Bond, Monty Python, etc. etc. etc

TV - Downton Abbey, Doctor Who, Alias, Black Books, Firefly, The Good Wife, etc

Music - Portishead, Massive Attack, The Cat Empire, Wolfmother,
Dean Martin, Patsy Cline, Tom Waits, Tom Jones, The Monkees, The
Beatles, Ray LaMontagne, Nick Drake, Yann Tiersen, Lamb/Lou Rhodes,
The Smiths, Weezer, Bowie, NIN, Modest Mouse, DJ Shadow, Jurassic
5, The XX, .... So much more, I could go on and on and on.

Food - Thai and Indian are high on the list. I have been vegetarian
for over 20 years now but have a dislike for those who preach about it.
To each his own. You eat meat? that's cool. It isn't a deal
breaker. I have been amused as of late with the worry about me
being a vegetarian and allowing this to be a deal breaker of their
own. I still go out to eat at restaurants, I can eat my food and be
at the same table watching you eat yours. I think the only things
that I have had to draw a line was watching someone eat haggis or
kissing someone just after they ate a hot dog. Other then that...
all is good. really.
The six things I could never do without
Good Friends
Great conversation
my cat
the possibilities of adventure
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Life, debt, taxes... Love. the weather. what i am going to teach in class. the mind reels on and on.
On a typical Friday night I am
Enjoying a day off. Either crashing for a movie and dinner or maybe going out for a drink. Maybe even going out dancing. Either way, I usually have no expectations just because it is Friday night.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
hmm. I have a crush on David Tennant. I have fallen for Doctor Who. I can't help it. witty, silly and clever. great combo. And of course talent.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 36–48
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
Well, it all depends. You could just not do anything and hope that a serendipitous moment happens. Or, you could send me a message to let me know you are out there and interested in conversing and maybe sitting down to have a drink or a coffee.