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57 Sebastopol, CA Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 45–57
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Sep 3
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Other, and laughing about it
Gemini, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Mostly monogamous
Has a kid, but doesn’t want more
Likes cats
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm a passionate, outdoorsy father of one teen girl, teacher of biology and nature, runner, compassionate person looking for a companion who shares similar values and interests and is willing to explore others. I am very open and honest, and am able to be in the moment completely. (I'm human too.....).....
I am attracted to eastern philosophies/practices and am greatly inspired by nature, poetry, music, and the human spirit....yes, science and spirituality mesh quite well...the new brain science supports that!..... Intellectual conversation turns me on. I grew up poor in Marin County in the 60's -'70's.....that helped shape who I am was a magical time in Marin!
I practice Qi gong.. and mindfulness meditation to help maintain staying fit, and hopefully creating a an active, high energy person..........just breathe, right? :-)
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Learning to be a more "whole" person and living life day to day.....raising and enjoying being my daughter,( at 17, this is not as easy to come by as it was.....)
Being respectful to life and our planet. Enjoying the wonder of wild places, both alone for the solitude, and with friends, is high on my list...having fun when I can! and taking care of life, which isn't always fun.....generally what we make it!! ;-)

Having just turned 57 ( yes, that is my real age), having good genes and a youthful heart ( a must for a high school teacher) I appreciate balance, peace, understanding, and just being, as I get feels good to keep fit at this age..:-)

I appreciate a woman who strives to be nonjudgmental and values introspection and change...... (a work in progress I value as well) hope is to co-create a relationship flush with nurturing, integrity, passion and day at a time...and take it from there....the rest is the icing on the cake ;-)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
* being: compassionate...curious...thoughtful
* being there for my daughter and loved ones....
* seeking adventure in nature/wilderness
* understanding living processes and ecology/relationships in nature (biology)
* cooking/preparing meals ( used to be in the deli biz)
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
my enthusiastic and intense nature.....I am very expressive, ... thoughtful, bright,....... (I have my moments too ;).....
my blue eyes, smile........
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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the Prophet, Jack Kornfield (at Spirit Rock Meditation), Never Cry Wolf, Moral Lives of Animals, Mary Oliver, The Beatles, Jackson Browne, Lucinda Williams, Lyle Lovett, Van the Man, Bonnie Rait, Ray Charles, the blues, rock,....etc.....sushi / Thai food, , fresh fish........cilantro, chocolate :-).......etc.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
running / action
curiosity / insight
sleep / laughter
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
*being here now /not thinking...(not always easy)
*parenting my daughter,
*traveling/next adventure......
*staying fit,
*my students
*intimacy (emotional and physical)
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
relaxing.......... with friends/family, solitude at the beach, listening to a Giants game on the radio, having a good beer with
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My mistakes and shortcomings....( I too am a work in progress)...I am very open to sharing who I am, what I need, and how I feel.......also very open to listening to your feelings, dreams, desires, etc........... I tend to be direct and honest.....sometimes to a fault.( I use a lot more tact than i used to ( being a high school teacher and parent of a 17 y.o. daughter helps guide me)
You should message me if
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you are curious to see if there is more of a connection....
you would like to meet a guy pushing 60 who is wise but youthful in body and mind....
you want to meet a great kisser who values open communication, owns his "stuff", and strives to accentuate my positive traits and work on my challenges...