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56 Sebastopol, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women who like men
  • Ages 45–57
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 3:29pm
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Other, and somewhat serious about it
Gemini, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Has a kid, but doesn’t want more

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm a passionate, outdoorsy father of one teen girl, teacher of biology and nature, runner, compassionate person looking for a companion who shares similar values and interests and is willing to explore others. I am very open and honest, and am able to be in the moment completely. (I'm human too.....).....I'm a science teacher(biology, chemistry, physiology, etc.).
I am attracted to eastern philosophies and am greatly inspired by nature, poetry, music, and the human spirit....yes, science and spirituality mesh quite well...the new brain science supports that!..... Intellectual conversation turns me on, and I am fascinated by the new/recent brain to create (carpentry)...explore nature/wild places/new by a stream......there is so much more that floats my boat!!
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Learning to be a more "whole" person and living life day to day.....not being owned by hope and desires...but also staying human...raising and enjoying my daughter, being respectful to life and our planet. Enjoying the wonder of wild places, both alone for the solitude, and with friends, is high on my list...having fun when I can! and taking care of life, which isn't always fun.....generally what we make it!! ;-) Mindful meditation practice and Qi Gong is an important part of my is staying fit, and trying to maintain a balance...just breathe, right? :-)
Ultimately, I would like to meet a best friend and a passionate monogamous lover.....that means the chemistry has to be deep and the willingness to be open minded, and follow our attraction........ my hope is to co-create a relationship flush with nurturing, and committed work. day at a time...I am ready.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
being compassionate...introspective...listening.....
being there for my daughter....
seeking adventure in nature/wilderness travel/backpacking
......I brew beer as a hobby on occasion.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
my enthusiastic and intense nature.....I am very expressive, bright, blue eyes, smile.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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the Prophet, Jack Kornfield (at Spirit Rock Meditation), Never Cry Wolf, Moral Lives of Animals, Mary Oliver, The Beatles, Jackson Browne, Lucinda Williams, Lyle Lovett, Van the Man, Bonnie Rait, Ray Charles, the blues, rock,....etc.....sushi / Thai food, , fresh fish........cilantro, chocolate :-).......etc.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
running / action
curiosity / insight
sleep / laughter
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
being in the moment (not always easy) ......travelling/next adventure......staying fit, my daughter, my students, animal behavior (well, I'm a biology guy)....., my next construction project....obviously a lot more... ;-) .....would love to share!
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
relaxing.......... with friends/family, solitude at the beach, listening to a Giants game on the radio, having a good beer with
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My mistakes and shortcomings....( I too am a work in progress)...I am very open to sharing who I am, what I need, and how I feel....I know a lot of guys can't....also very open to listening to your feelings, dreams, desires, etc........... I am very honest. Everything you read here is true ( it amazes me that so many portray themselves contrary to who they really are)...I'm not naive...ok, maybe a bit :-)....and yes, a bit idealistic ( I'm a teacher, right?)
You should message me if
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you are curious to see if there is more of a connection....
you would like to talk....
you think I'm a fun looking guy and would like to say hi.....
you like an older guy who is wise but youthful in body and mind....
you can relate to this quote by philosopher and theologian Howard Thurman: “Don't ask what the world needs. Ask what makes you come alive, and go do it. Because what the world needs is people who have come alive.”