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birdofjoy

65 F Santa Barbara, CA

My Details

Last Online
May 26
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Asian
Height
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body Type
Thin
Diet
Anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other
Sign
Aries, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Other
Income
$50,000–$60,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm spiritual to the max, think out of the box and want someone who is like-minded. I'm enjoying life and the challenging path of a spiritual seeker more and more all the time. I know that balancing life goals, leisure/fun, and rest are of prime importance. You would want these too, be interested in a healthy lifestyle and lifelong learning path. Also balancing the spiritual and material journeys is essential also. Want a man who put friendship first, is healthy, likes the outdoors and who wants to form a mutually supportive relationship.
What I’m doing with my life
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redecorating my house/decluttering/reorganizing; improving my singing, exercising regularly, continuing my spiritual journey through this wonderful life, unloading old emotional baggage, teaching meditation
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
massage, leading spiritual ceremonies, prayer, writing, being of service to others, cooking, listening, being spontaneous, dressing well, meditating, coaching others
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Bull Durham, Gone with the Wind, Whale Rider, Zardoz, Last Wave, Tin Cup, ...Marigold Hotel, Woman in the Dunes
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
support systems- (friends, spiritual family, professional associates), connection to Spirit, music, the ocean, making a difference in people's lives
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Writing, my life mission - creating peace on Earth, starting with individual meditation, how to think less!
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
At SB Center for Lifelong Learning (formerly Adult Ed) studying singing. When there's no class, perhaps writing, watching TV, working in the garden when it's Daylight Savings, relaxing at home, reading, or doing massages.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
If it's private, it doesn't go on the Internet, right?
I’m looking for
  • Straight guys only
  • Ages 55–67
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
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You consider yourself spiritual, you're financially stable, tolerant and open-minded, think out of the box, like the outdoors, metaphysically sophisticated, and consider yourself on a spiritual path. You exercise regularly and put spiritual growth, continued learning and self improvement high on your priority list.