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birdwithabow

24 F Madison, WI

I’m looking for

  • All who like bi women
  • Ages 20–33
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 6:04pm
Orientation
Bisexual
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 0″ (1.52m)
Body Type
Curvy
Diet
Mostly vegan
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Judaism, but not too serious about it
Sign
Aquarius, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Hospitality
Income
Less than $20,000
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Latin (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I'm just yr good old fashioned Midwestern queer: My gender is nonbinary, my pastries are vegan, and my feminism is intersectional.

I take they/them pronouns, multiple romantic partners, and too much time to make up my mind about future plans.

I like indie comics, upbeat music about sad things, needles, and dinosaurs.

I'm dating 3 people right now, and probably don't have time for more at the moment. Plz remind me of this if I forget.
What I’m doing with my life
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Working at a vegan cafe, and vaguely planning to go into either cosmetology, or tech. Either way, I'll be sitting for too many hours a day, putting up with stupid people, and failing to use my gender studies degree.

I also do roller derby. WOO!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Hyperventilating when I have to list my good qualities.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Usually my hair which tends to be dyed. It changes more frequently than I update my OKC, so don't expect an accurate portrayal here.

After that, the first thing people would notice about me would either be my short stature, or I guess my personality, if you're the sort of freak who's into that kind of thing.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Margaret Atwood's Madaddam trilogy, Rupetta, Harry Potter, ASOIAF, I also occasionally read Judith Butler and Kate Bornstien. Fuck, I should read more.

Movies: Being John Malcovich, The Lion King, Co-Dependent Lesbian Space Alien Seeks Same. Mostly I like criticizing media from a feminist perspective.

Shows: Star Trek TNG and DS9, Buffy, Firefly, 30 Rock, Game of Thrones, Gravity Falls, Princess Jellyfish, Adventure Time, Steven Universe, Arrested Development, Avatar, and Korra.

Music: Magnetic Fields, They Might Be Giants, REM, Le Tigre, David Bowie, Fishboy, Pansy Division, Neutral Milk Hotel, Meatloaf, Talking Heads, Damseltrash.

Food: Anything delicious and vegan. I love balsamic, bahn mi sammies, and thai curries.

I am a terribly casual gamer, and play a lot of Civ V, AoM, and occasionally the Sims. I also play tabletop games: WoD(new and old), D&D(3.5 and 4), and Shadowrun(5E). Yay nerds!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Food, people, the interwebz, ideas, cuddles, my cat
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
People, culture, why the world sucks, intersectionality, feminisms, relationships, food, dinosaurs.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Working late, and then deciding if it's worth it to go out because I work early the next morning.

If you work in food service, Friday and Saturday are not weekend days, Sunday and Monday are. That's usually when I drink with friends, go out to bars, etc., etc.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I've read all of the Twilight books... I am actually the worst feminist ever.
You should message me if
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You want to talk! Especially if you want to discuss queer theory, dinosaurs, cats, or nerdy shit. Also, you won't be offended if I don't respond for months... Sorry!