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40 M Castro Valley, CA

I’m looking for

  • Straight girls only
  • Ages 29–42
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

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6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body Type
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Seeing what's out here...and looking for what we all are. I'm not very patient but only takes one, right? Right???

A Bay Area native....lived in the city for a long time, and moved back to the East Bay a couple years ago. Have a great job with some flexibility, my own home, great family and friends - trying to find that someone to share it all with.

Some of these profiles are amazingly ridiculous...

(It's interesting since I got back on here...I've been told that this next part is mean, that I seem sad, that I seem happy, and that I'm cannot be all those things can it? Maybe it's the interpretation of the reader.)

Sooooo...I'll just say that there are some nuggets of truth and sarcasm in this next set of observations...

Just one pic? Come on.
Awesome that you went to the beach one time, but eight pictures of it?
I love dogs...but don't need to see five more of little Sparky.
Halloween seems to be popular on here.
Group shots when you cannot figure out who is who...ugh.
Any picture from 20 feet or more... that's just fun.
My current favorite is the same strategic angled picture four times...
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I work an effort to enjoy the things I like. Travel a little bit with my job and try and build in some fun things around well as traveling to see friends in other places. The weekend Southwest Airlines trips have become my norm.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Not filling this thing out...not easy talking about yourself with out sounding cheesy.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My smile?
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
That elusive trip to Australia that I want to take at the end of this year.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
In no particular order...out with friends, at the gym, early night in after a long week, on a flight to somewhere, or at a sporting event.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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That I have a profile on online dating sites.
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