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bjl268

36 Flanders, NJ Man

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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 28–39
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Online now!
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Overweight
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism, and laughing about it
Sign
Virgo, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Science / Engineering
Income
$80,000–$100,000
Status
Single
Type
Monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm an Engineer by birth and by education. So, I'm a logical and critical thinker. I also tend to fall somewhat into the geek/nerd demographic by some of the things that I say, or some of the things that I like. I tend to be somewhat quiet and shy around new people, but I'm quickly able to warm up and let myself be my complete idiot self around them. I try to be a good, honest person. I love to make people laugh. I have a snarky sarcastic side to me.

I've got the whole adult thing down - I live on my own, support myself with a full time job, take care of my cat, etc. Just looking to add the adult relationship into the equation.

Looking for new friends and romance, but not necessarily in that order.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Doing the 9-5:30 thing during the week, although trying out the 7-3:30 window instead.

I like my job, and feel like what I do does make a difference.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
- Making people laugh
- Some video games
- Getting better at bowling
- I've been told my google-fu is strong
- I used to be good at going to concerts, and would love to start that up again with someone who shares similar musical interests.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'd say that I can be easy to talk to.

Also, if I'm completely clean-shaven, I've also been told that I look a lot younger than I am. Knowing how old I actually am, that makes me feel both good and bad. :)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: Not much of a reader these days, but still love the Lord of the Rings books. I've read some Stephen King, and do have some more of his books waiting to be read.

Music: I tend to be all over the spectrum, but I like alternative the most. Recently have listened to Metallica, Pearl Jam, Shinedown, Seether, Portishead, Sara Bareilles, Fiona Apple, and some tv/movie soundtracks. I really am all over the place sometimes.

TV shows: I tend to like dramas. Some of the current ones I watch are: Doctor Who, House, CSI, NCIS, Walking Dead, Criminal Minds, White Collar, Burn Notice, Warehouse 13 and some other dramas. For cartoons, I enjoy Futurama, Rick and Morty, Aqua Teen Hunger Force, Metalocalpyse, and Robot Chicken. I'm also up for some of the programming on Discovery, TLC, or Food Network.

Movies: I tend to go towards the dramas, but I have to admit that I'm a sucker for the romantic comedies. All-time favorite movies are The Usual Suspects and Batman Begins. Batman Begins started my man-crush on Christian Bale. I don't normally go to the theater to see movies, I tend to wait until they are released for home viewing.

Food: classic American fare, as well as Mexican, Italian, Indian, and I'm really willing to try almost anything. I do have my no-no foods, which include mushrooms, olives and bananas. Please keep those away from me.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
- The interwebs
- Bowling
- My cat
- Humor - oh how I need to have things to keep me amused
- Netflix - to help distress and unwind with on-demand TV shows and movies.
- My fantasy sports teams - sure, it's kinda geeky, but I love it.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The meaning of life; the source of true happiness; if time travel is possible; why my cat sits behind me and cries for no reason; why bottle-necks happen on the highway when a car is parked on the shoulder; what if life was more like a video game; why are Dilbert and Office Space so realistic; and other uber-serious ponderings.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Fridays are pretty open for me, so I'm hoping to change that!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I've named all my cats after characters in Buffy the Vampire Slayer.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
If you're looking for awesome people to hang out with.
If you like to have random discussions about TV, the world, politics, etc.
If you're looking to fill in your Friday or Saturday nights.
If you're looking for someone to go out for Indian food with.
If you like Doctor Who.