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bjm417

43 M Jersey City, NJ

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 3:40am
Orientation
Gay
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Skinny
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Sign
Aries, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Dropped out of masters program
Job
Entertainment / Media
Income
$100,000–$150,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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What I’m doing with my life
I'm helping the rich get richer by working in financial journalism, but that pays for my habits. I like to travel, read, dine out. I'm not a party animal, but I can dance till dawn when the need arises.
I’m really good at
editing, scrabble, arguing (not bickering), other things (but I'd have to show you :D)
The first things people usually notice about me
Glasses, hair, that I'm slightly quieter than normal.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Music: Peter Gabriel/Genesis, David Bowie, Patrick Wolf, David Byrne/Talking Heads, MGMT, LCD Soundsystem, Radiohead, Janelle Monae, the normal danceclub fodder

Books: William Faulkner (of course), Gore Vidal, HL Mencken, FA Hayek, Joseph Schumpeter (I was an econ major), the Amises (Kingsley and Martin), Christopher Hitchens, Bertrand Russell, Richard Dawkins... I like to be challenged and/or amused when I'm reading.

Movies: I am into smart comedies and can watch most anything else except scary movies (unless you insist).

TV: Family Guy, The Office, Golden Girls, King of the Hill, Simpsons, Seinfeld, Dallas, documentaries

Food: I'm open to most cuisines, from sushi to tapas to Memphis barbecue.
The six things I could never do without
In no particular order:
1. Music
2. TV
3. iPhone (OK, I gave up and bought one)
4. Computer
5. Good food (not snobbish about it; it can be fast, too)
6. Books
I spend a lot of time thinking about
philosophy, economics, where Lady Gaga goes from here.
On a typical Friday night I am
either at home or out with a few friends dancing or playing pool.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm a procrastinator.
I do pushups like a woman. (It's a start.)
I have both ironic and non-ironic appreciations of Phil Collins. (I can't help it if he's a spectacular drummer.)
I have a near-perfect track record of taking terrible profile pics.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like guys
  • Ages 18–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
You're still interested.