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My self-summary Propose an edit

I am a friendly and loving polyamorous bisexual Finn. My dream is to become a writer someday. I am interested in really many things, for example culture in general, philosophy and society, reading, voluntary work, alternative lifestyles, visual kei, manga, goth and jrock clubs. There are too many things to be listed, I tend to get excited a lot. I do have a lot of fun, but I also tend to despair a lot. And yeah, I have a livejournal in address http://bjorkmus.livejournal.com/, it's mostly in English, but there are entries also in Finnish. And be warned, reading it made one of my current boyfriends cry.

FYI: I'm really slow at answering mails, do not be offended... And I have about 15 second attention span. So if I won't answer you it's probably because I was going to and then some shiny thing distracted me...

Please note that I am very serious about being poly. If you are looking the One and Only True Love of Your Life, I won't be it. But I can be one of the many... ;-D

What I'm doing with my life Propose an edit

I just got a Bachelor's degree in Sociology. I have tried at least three different subjects for a Master's Degree, but I am now giving it up. Instead I want to write some manga, that has been haunting me for two years.

I have been active in many NGOs at the past, but have a break from it now for health reasons. Now I'm planning to become a professional writer and a teacher. I have just started writing manga seriously, we'll see where it will take me. (I don't see why OkCupid says I'm less ambitious. One would assume a plan to be a famous writer to be quite ambitious...) ;-D

I'm really good at Propose an edit

I am a "people person". I really love spending time with my friends and getting to know new peoplely t. And people usualend to like me, too. Otherwise I am quite imaginative and like to use my imagination. I also love to dance and am a pretty good dancer, even if I'm somewhat clumsy in everyday life. I am also very good at forgetting things and losing objects. ;-D

The first thing(s) people usually notice about me Propose an edit

The fact that I seem really harmless, my individualistic style, my fluffy hair, and my boobs. ;-D

My favorite books, movies, music, and food Propose an edit

A) Sandman series from Neil Gaiman, many manga series, books by Ursula Le Guinn, Steven Brust, Margaret Atwood, Joanna Rubin Dranger, Finnish authors Johanna Sinisalo, Arno Kotro, Tove Jansson B) can't really describe my taste on movies; I like movies by David Lynch and Tim Burton, Kieslowski and so on... but also some B-films and cheap scifi C) mostly metal but also hard rock, alternative, folk, jrock D) sushi, pizza, more sushi, chocolate, dark beer, red wine, cheese and more sushi

The food question was the easiest one!

The six things I could never do without Propose an edit

The fact I am vulnerable.
1. medication 2. sleep 3. friends and family 4. imagination 5. good food 6. sex

I spend a lot of time thinking about Propose an edit

life, in general. I really spend a lot of time just thinking.

On a typical Friday night I am Propose an edit

There is no a "typical Friday Night" for me. I don't have patterns like that. I can be out partying, visiting friends or family, studying or just playing computer games at home. Or whatever else I happen to think of.

The most private thing I'm willing to admit here Propose an edit

1st) my fat percent is 37,7. Yeah, more than one third of me is fat. But that is going to change soon. 2nd) I have recovered from a long term depression. I have a mild case of bipolarity.

You should message me if Propose an edit

If any of these applies to you: You are interested in alternative lifestyles, or are polyamorous, have a personality type ENFP, are curios of life and new experiences or / and do have same kind of taste or style as me. I am into for example but not limited to girly boys and boyish girls, femme-type women, punk rockers, intellectuals, artistic types, hippies, goths, make up on men, weird hairdos or skirts on anyone, platform boots and playfullness!

Oh, and if you are a manga artist looking for stories to draw!

And yeah, you should definitely be polyfriendly and tolerant to craziness!

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bjorkmus: 934 questions

Ethnicity
White
Height
4' 11" (1.50m).
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners, Long-distance penpals
Smokes
No
Drinks
Often
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism and somewhat serious about it
Sign
N/A
Education
Working on masters program
Job
Student
Income
$0-$20,000
Kids
Likes children, but doesn't want any
Pets
Likes cats
Languages
English (Fluently), Finnish (Fluently), Swedish (Okay), German (Poorly), French (Poorly)

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