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54 F Elkins Park, PA

I’m looking for

  • Straight guys only
  • Ages 40–55
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Other, and somewhat serious about it
Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay), French (Fluently), Italian (Okay), Portuguese (Okay)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Favorite movie quote: "I'm not taking my pants off for scotland!"

i'm a green eyed redhead. smart,funny & creative. Very playful.easy to get along with. Everyone I meet tells me I'm fun.

Surprisingly, the dating persona test seems to sum me up pretty well, so take a look at it if you're interested.

I like how it feels to cuddle with a sweet man til you drift off to sleep.

not perfect and don't expect you to be either. Sane would be nice. All parts in working order even better.

i learn from everything i see and everyone i meet. Every single day. It's not always something pleasant, but it doesn't have to be. You have to be willing to own, face, accept yr dark side as well as others' to truly be accepting. I'm an optimist but no little mary sunshine.i prefer to believe the best of ppl, but it's not always justified.

Am ALWAYS honest. Ok blunt. I've never been accused of being boring or ordinary. Most ppl can't handle total honesty, even when they ask for it. that's ok because i'm not interested in most ppl.just the extraordinary ones.

I abhor cliche. After you read a bunch of these bios, they sound pretty lackluster. You can get my attention by writing what's real for you about why you're here or how you feel about yr life. I don't care how often you go to the gym, love yr dog & children/grandchildren, enjoy the jersey shore. Big deal. So does everyone else. What makes you different from the rest?

I'm a busy person, but I've got room in my life for that needle in a haystack guy. Let's just have some fun and see how things go!
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Right now, I finally found a guitarist who can play bossa nova, so we're trying to put together some songs to play . I sing in italian, french, portuguese, spanish & english. Super hard to find ppl who like & play same material. fun!

Former restaurant / catering chef. Board certified massage therapist. Practicing pagan w jewish background. Studied plant medicine, worked with very well known medicine men/women and shamans, have done journeying on the drum,am a reiki channel and use crystals. And yet, manage to avoid being a flake.I dont care if you share my beliefs, just respect them.

Socially, with the right ppl, i can enjoy doing or not doing just about anything. i'm an easy laugher. i do the usual stuff, will even sit through the occasional sporting event, especially if it makes someone else happy to have company. if there's an adventure to be had, i'm there.

i'm happiest seeing new places, meeting new people, trying new things. and if there's a multiple choice, my favorite pick is all of the above almost always.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
a lot of things. But my bullshit detector is crazy good.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I dunno. What did you notice?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
let's discuss. wide range of music and books
Books include mark helprins a winters tale, jumpa lahiri, pico iyer, Alexander mccall smith, mary roach, wodehouse, pullman, tom robbins, douglas adams, jasper fforde, john hodgeman, pramoedya ananta toer, rita golden gelman...shakespeare's sonnets, mark twain, nathaniel Hawthorne...I could read before starting school.

Music: flamenco, classical, bossa nova,opera, 80s punk & new wave, incubus, black keys, reggae, motown, funk, jazz, blues,ambient, trance, ethnic...turn me on to something new! Adore october project, james brown, stevie wonder, chaka khan, brian eno, parliament, elvis costello, dream academy, gypsy kings (early), billie holiday (late recordings)...

Movies: enchanted april, andalusian dog, muppets in space, dopey seth rogan films, wes Anderson, monty python, jean luc Godard, fellini, harold n kumar, idiocracy, swept away, kurosawa's dreams, avatar for visuals, directos cut of the abyss.amongst others.

i favor wired magazine, consumer reports and new scientist.

food? mostly anything spicy or interesting. Trying to avoid white food,flour,sugar,dairy.mostly.

telly: mostly BBC generated, but big bang, true blood, game of thrones, family guy, robot chicken, futurama, archer, downton abbey, dr. who, doc martin, grimm, some other stuff...
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
A whacked out sense of humor, passionate kisses, great conversations, spicy food, chocolate, good strong coffee, and yes my smartphone.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
...Everything. All at once. Inside my head is a very busy curious about everything and even curious about curiosity.

...that famous Woody Allen quote: showing up is 80% of life. So why is that such a problem for so many people?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
...not very typical. no one i know seems to mind. i can blend in ok when necessary. i know how to play the game.

typical friday night? haven't had many of those. what's it like? must be a snorefest if you're doing it every friday night.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
note: if you want to talk, go ahead n contact me. I like when guys take some initiative. Be bold!

parameters listed below: I'd rather not decide in advance what kind of, if any, relationship we will can you even predict that sort of thing without knowing someone? Let's just try a meet over coffee or a glass of wine, see how that goes and let the story unfold as it will. No preconceived notions, ok?

And at the moment, i'm finding I prefer non monogamous relationships.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over. have not used the word DRAMA anywhere on your profile. The most overused redundancy on this site.i wanna meet the guy requesting MORE drama. I don't have any, but at least it would be different.

- you MUST live an hr away from me or less. Unless you fly a plane or send me tickets. So don't waste my time unless you expect to move closer or would seriously consider it.

-you are OVER 40 & UNDER 55, no serious medical or mental health problems or addictions.

-and you can communicate what's going on with you, good or bad, so i don't have to guess. i'm not a mindreader. You can tell me anything, I don't judge.

no pic= no talk